Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda CJ Turner Trauma & Relationship Specialist | Neuroscience & Emotional Regulation | Women 45+ | Emotional Abuse & Coercive Control Recovery You survived it. Now it’s time to heal from it.

The Wider Impact of Abuse: When One Abusive Relationship Affects an Entire Relational System

Domestic abuse is not confined to the victim; it impacts the entire relational environment, affecting children, relatives, and friends. Chronic exposure to abuse leads to altered behaviors, hypervigilance, and emotional exhaustion within the social network. Recognizing these wider effects is crucial for understanding and addressing the full repercussions of such abuse.… Read More The Wider Impact of Abuse: When One Abusive Relationship Affects an Entire Relational System

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Family Systems of Denial

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses the effects of witnessing intergenerational abuse, emphasizing the psychological complexities of denial within families. Survivors often struggle with acknowledging their experiences when family members refuse to recognize the abuse, creating feelings of isolation. Therapy can help survivors separate their experiences from their family’s responses, allowing healing and agency.… Read More Family Systems of Denial

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Trauma Informed Assessment

When a clinician is assessing for multidimensional abuse, they are generally looking beyond a single incident and examining the pattern, domains, severity, impact, risk and degree of control within the relationship. It is not simply a checklist asking, “Were you hit?” A good assessment tries to understand the person’s lived environment. What a clinical assessment may examine 1. Psychological and… Read More Trauma Informed Assessment

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Multidimensional Abuse: When Abuse Takes More Than One Form

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Abuse within an intimate relationship is rarely confined to a single behaviour. While public discussions often focus on physical violence, clinical understanding recognises that interpersonal abuse can occur across multiple domains simultaneously, including psychological, verbal, physical, sexual and financial abuse. When several forms of abuse coexist and interact, this can be described as multidimensional or multidomain… Read More Multidimensional Abuse: When Abuse Takes More Than One Form

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No – I never deserved it!

The content explores the nuances of an apology from someone who has caused emotional and psychological harm. While expressing remorse and acknowledging wrongdoing, the writer avoids specific details of their abusive behavior. The distinction between genuine regret and a lack of accountability is emphasized, as well as the complexity of acknowledging past suffering while grappling with loss. Ultimately, it stresses that recognizing abuse and sincerity can coexist, alongside the critical assertion that the victim “never deserved it.”… Read More No – I never deserved it!

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When Healthy Finally Feels Normal

The post reflects on the transition from unhealthy to healthy relationships, emphasizing the profound difference between constant anxiety and genuine comfort. It highlights the joy of mutual respect, shared interests, and emotional safety, revealing that true normalcy is rooted in simplicity, consideration, and the absence of toxicity after long deprivation of these experiences.… Read More When Healthy Finally Feels Normal

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