Category: MEN & RELATIONSHIP DIFFICULTIES

Men & Relationship Difficulties
Supporting men who are navigating relationship difficulties, separation, divorce, emotional challenges or major life transitions. Explore emotional awareness, communication, anger and stress regulation, relationship patterns, self-understanding and healthier ways of responding to conflict and change.

Coming Clean: Telling a New Partner About a History of Abuse, Violence or Restraining-Order Breaches

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Starting a new relationship usually involves gradually getting to know one another. You talk about your past, your family, your previous relationships, your hopes, your mistakes and the experiences that have shaped you. But what happens when someone’s past includes convictions for domestic abuse, physical violence, threats or breaking restraining orders? At what point should a… Read More Coming Clean: Telling a New Partner About a History of Abuse, Violence or Restraining-Order Breaches

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Breaking a Restraining Order: Why a Breach Can Be a Serious Criminal Matter

A restraining order is not a suggestion. It is a court-ordered legal restriction designed to protect a person from further contact, harassment, intimidation, approach or violence. When a person deliberately breaks that order, the breach can become a new criminal offence in its own right. This is particularly important in cases involving domestic abuse, physical violence, threats or… Read More Breaking a Restraining Order: Why a Breach Can Be a Serious Criminal Matter

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Anger Management Therapy for Men & Women Over 40

The content discusses how anger can signal deeper issues rather than being solely negative. It highlights the emotional roots of anger, especially for individuals over 40, and emphasizes the importance of therapy for both men and women. Therapy can help individuals understand, regulate, and respond to their anger constructively, improving relationships and emotional wellbeing.… Read More Anger Management Therapy for Men & Women Over 40

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What impression management can look like in practice

Impression management is a well-studied concept in forensic psychology and sociology. It refers to the ways individuals deliberately shape how others perceive them—especially to appear normal, trustworthy, or harmless while hiding behaviours, intentions, or risks that would damage that image. In the context of offending behaviour, it is often discussed in relation to “deceptive self-presentation” or “social masking.”… Read More What impression management can look like in practice

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Why Some Men Wait Until the Divorce Is Final Before Making Their Move

Not every man is comfortable starting a new relationship with someone who is still legally married. For many, it isn’t about a lack of interest—it’s about respecting boundaries. Some men want the reassurance that the past has been fully closed before investing emotionally in the future. They don’t want to become involved in legal complications,… Read More Why Some Men Wait Until the Divorce Is Final Before Making Their Move

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Why Some Men Wait Until the Divorce Is Final Before Making Their Move

Not every man is comfortable starting a new relationship with someone who is still legally married. For many, it isn’t about a lack of interest—it’s about respecting boundaries. Some men want the reassurance that the past has been fully closed before investing emotionally in the future. They don’t want to become involved in legal complications,… Read More Why Some Men Wait Until the Divorce Is Final Before Making Their Move

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“I Wish I’d Gone After My Ex’s Pension”: What Comments Like This May Reveal

Sometimes a single remark tells us less about a person’s personality than it does about their values. A comment such as, “I wish I’d gone after my ex-wife’s pension. A teacher’s pension would have been much larger than mine. Maybe it’s not too late,” does not, on its own, prove someone is abusive or indicate a particular… Read More “I Wish I’d Gone After My Ex’s Pension”: What Comments Like This May Reveal

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Withholding Affection and Using Degrading Comments: Two Powerful Tools of Emotional Abuse

Abuse is not always obvious. It does not always involve shouting, threats or physical violence. Sometimes it is expressed through what is deliberately withheld as much as through what is openly said. Affection, kindness and emotional warmth can become tools of control when they are given and withdrawn according to another person’s wishes. Combined with… Read More Withholding Affection and Using Degrading Comments: Two Powerful Tools of Emotional Abuse

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When Generosity Is a Performance: The Hidden Reality of Impression Management and Financial Control

To the outside world, some relationships appear almost perfect. There are thoughtful gifts, expensive bottles of wine, luxury holidays, anniversary celebrations, and public displays of generosity. Friends and family see a partner who appears loving, successful and devoted. But appearances can be carefully managed. Behind closed doors, the reality may be completely different. The Two… Read More When Generosity Is a Performance: The Hidden Reality of Impression Management and Financial Control

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