“What’s it like being on your own after 32 years?” I thought about it for a moment and said: “Actually, I’ve been on my own for 32 years.” And I meant it. Because being married isn’t necessarily the same thing as having a partner. For the past two years, I’ve been doing the things I… Read More Someone asked me recently:
The following behaviours may raise safeguarding concerns, particularly when an adult is watching a young child without a legitimate reason.
Sometimes the most important warning sign isn’t what someone tells you. It’s what they imply they know. Imagine someone makes an apparently casual comment about your child. Perhaps they mention something you didn’t know. Perhaps they imply they have information about your child’s life that hasn’t been shared with you. Perhaps they say: “I know… Read More When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells
The content discusses the complexities of recognizing and addressing potential grooming behaviors towards children by trusted individuals. It emphasizes the psychological challenges parents face when confronted with allegations against those they know and care for, urging them to remain vigilant for warning signs and prioritize their children’s safety above discomfort or reputations.… Read More Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?
The text discusses how denial, defensiveness, loyalty, and fear can impact responses to suspected grooming behaviors. It highlights psychological conflicts individuals face when confronted with evidence against trusted people, often resulting in minimizing concerns or attacking the witness instead of addressing the allegations. The focus should remain on investigating behavior, not reputation.… Read More Deny, Deny, Deny: The Psychology of Denial When Someone Is Confronted With Evidence of Grooming
Why do some people criticise others behind their backs but act sweet to their faces? Explore the psychology of gossip, superiority, impression management, social perception and trust.… Read More Don’t Insult People’s Intelligence: When Your Behaviour Tells a Completely Different Story
“The elephant in the room” refers to an obvious yet uncomfortable issue that everyone acknowledges but avoids discussing due to potential embarrassment or conflict. This concept applies to various contexts, such as relationships, families, and workplaces, where acknowledging uncomfortable truths can lead to responsibility and confrontation.… Read More “The elephant in the room”
The content explores the psychological dynamics of double standards in relationships, highlighting how one partner may consistently be blamed or invalidated while the other is not. This unequal treatment can lead to feelings of inadequacy, defensiveness, and emotional exhaustion. The text emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the ability to admit mistakes for healthy interactions.… Read More “A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me
Discover how ego, cognitive dissonance, emotional threat and confirmation bias can distort our perception, interfere with sensible decisions and prevent personal growth.… Read More When Ego Gets in the Way of Reality: The Neuroscience and Psychology of Self-Deception
Sometimes God makes us wait a little longer because the blessing He has planned for us is far bigger than anything we could have imagined. What feels like a delay may actually be divine timing. Trust the process.Trust the timing.And never assume that because it hasn’t happened yet, it isn’t coming. Sometimes the wait is part… Read More Be patient. ❤️
