Examples of sexually inappropriate behaviour

Sexually inappropriate behaviour includes unwanted sexual words, gestures, contact, attention or pressure that cause discomfort, embarrassment, intimidation or insecurity. It may occur in person or online, with or without physical contact. Examples include touching, sexual comments, unsolicited messages, persistent advances, coercion and ignoring boundaries. Consent, respect and personal boundaries must always be upheld.… Read More Examples of sexually inappropriate behaviour

Behind Closed Doors: Recognising the Warning Signs of Child Sexual Abuse and Hidden Offending

The respectable identity an adult presents to society does not necessarily reveal their private behaviour. Understanding grooming, boundary violations, secrecy and patterns of inappropriate conduct can help protect children before abuse escalates. One of the most difficult aspects of child sexual abuse is that perpetrators do not necessarily look, behave or present themselves in ways… Read More Behind Closed Doors: Recognising the Warning Signs of Child Sexual Abuse and Hidden Offending

ASPD, Intimacy and Sex: The Psychology of Desire, Attachment and Emotional Connection

Can someone desire you sexually but struggle to connect with you emotionally? Can sex exist without genuine intimacy? And how might antisocial personality traits affect affection, vulnerability, trust and long-term sexual relationships? This is an important area of understanding ASPD because sexual desire, emotional attachment, empathy and love are four different psychological experiences. A person can… Read More ASPD, Intimacy and Sex: The Psychology of Desire, Attachment and Emotional Connection

No More Dear Paul Letters: I Will Never Beg for Love Again

The writer reflects on old letters pleading for affection, understanding, and kindness from an emotionally unavailable partner. She recognizes that repeated attempts to communicate became begging, revealing a relationship marked by neglect, control, and abuse. Now, she rejects further persuasion, embraces her worth, reclaims her voice, and chooses relationships where love and respect are freely given.… Read More No More Dear Paul Letters: I Will Never Beg for Love Again

When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy

Understanding how prolonged patterns of domination, entitlement and violence can develop into extreme danger. There is an important distinction between an isolated act of violence and a pattern of behaviour in which intimidation, coercion, humiliation and control become increasingly established. In some cases of domestic homicide, the killing is not an entirely unexpected event or… Read More When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy

When Love Isn’t Love: Why Actions Will Always Speak Louder Than Words

The content explores the significance of genuine love versus false promises in relationships. It emphasizes that true affection consists of consistent respectful behavior rather than mere words. The psychological effects of emotional manipulation are discussed, urging individuals to prioritize actions over promises, and highlighting that healthy love fosters emotional safety and autonomy.… Read More When Love Isn’t Love: Why Actions Will Always Speak Louder Than Words

When Money Becomes a Weapon: The Psychology of Demands, Threats and Financial Settlements

Understanding financial pressure, intimidation and the emotional dynamics that can turn a settlement into a battle for control. Financial settlements are rarely just about money. When relationships break down, particularly after years of conflict, financial negotiations can become emotionally charged encounters in which fear, resentment, entitlement and the desire for control influence how people behave.… Read More When Money Becomes a Weapon: The Psychology of Demands, Threats and Financial Settlements

What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

The People Who Disappeared: How Coercive Control Can Slowly Remove Your Support Network

Sometimes you don’t realise you have been isolated until you look back One of the most frightening things about prolonged coercive control is that isolation does not always look like isolation. There may be no moment when someone says: “You are no longer allowed to have friends.” Instead, people gradually disappear. A friend becomes someone… Read More The People Who Disappeared: How Coercive Control Can Slowly Remove Your Support Network

Coming Clean: Telling a New Partner About a History of Abuse, Violence or Restraining-Order Breaches

Starting a new relationship usually involves gradually getting to know one another. You talk about your past, your family, your previous relationships, your hopes, your mistakes and the experiences that have shaped you. But what happens when someone’s past includes convictions for domestic abuse, physical violence, threats or breaking restraining orders? At what point should a… Read More Coming Clean: Telling a New Partner About a History of Abuse, Violence or Restraining-Order Breaches