When Someone Has a History of Violence: Disclosure, Accountability and Safety
People who kill a partner or ex-partner at homewith a knife or other weapon could face an extra 10 years in prison under plans to strengthen sentencing laws, in a bid to tackle violence against women. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgqnzpwrpzo?
There are times when silence is not about secrecy. It is about responsibility. For legal reasons, some matters simply cannot be discussed or disclosed. Ongoing investigations, court proceedings, confidential information, and legal obligations often require restraint. Remaining silent does not mean there is nothing to say. It does not mean the truth does not exist.… Read More Some Things Cannot Be Discussed
There are many legitimate and illegitimate reasons why someone might wipe a computer’s hard drive or keep an old phone locked. However, in the context of an investigation or legal dispute, these actions can raise questions and may prompt further examination. Some possible reasons include: Innocent reasons Protecting personal privacy before selling or disposing of… Read More Erasing Evidence
Sadism in families refers to situations where a family member gains satisfaction, pleasure, a sense of power, or emotional gratification from causing another family member pain, distress, humiliation, fear, or suffering. This does not always involve physical violence. In many families, sadistic behaviour is emotional or psychological. Examples can include: Deliberately humiliating a child, partner,… Read More Sadism
What I learned very quickly was this: when a relationship becomes dangerous, evidence matters. When restraining orders are ignored, when boundaries are repeatedly crossed, and when family members close ranks, gang up on you, or attempt to intimidate and bully you into silence, your feelings and memories are important—but evidence is essential. The Guardia Civil… Read More Evidence remains.
Forensic psychologists can examine phone and computer data, but there’s an important distinction in howand what part they handle. 1. What forensic psychologists actually do A forensic psychologist typically focuses on the psychological interpretation of digital evidence, such as: Messaging patterns (texts, WhatsApp, social media) Emails and written communications Search history (behavioural patterns) Tone, intent, escalation of behaviour over time… Read More Forensics
Understanding the Overlap Between Intimate Partner Violence and Harm to Children Domestic abuse and child abuse are often discussed as separate issues. In reality, they frequently exist within the same household and can be driven by the same underlying patterns of coercion, control, and entitlement. Research consistently shows that while not every person who abuses… Read More When Domestic Abuse Crosses Into Child Abuse
You can often still visit New Zealand, Australia, and the USA with a criminal record, but it depends heavily on the type of offence, sentence, and how recent it is. Each country has its own rules, and they vary quite a bit. Here’s a clear breakdown: 🇳🇿 New Zealand You may be allowed in, but they… Read More “Crimes involving moral turpitude (CIMT)”
In Spain, police can intervene immediately (sometimes within minutes) if there is any indication of current risk, escalation, or potential breach of safety, especially in domestic violence or harassment-related contexts. Here’s what typically triggers immediate police action: 🚨 1. Active or imminent threat Police respond immediately if there is: Threats of harm or intimidation (“I’m coming to your house”,… Read More Someone approaching protected spaces
Where you go after escaping a volatile situation depends on safety, privacy, and stability first — not distance or emotion. Here’s a grounded, practical guide: 🛑 Immediately after leaving (first hours–24 hours) Go somewhere: Safe and undisclosed Where you won’t be easily found or pressured Ideally with trusted people or professional support Good options: A trusted friend… Read More 🛑 Immediately after leaving (first hours–24 hours)
