Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.
1. “Let’s pause and check in with how this makes you feel.” I’d invite the client to name their emotions: When someone says they’ll call and doesn’t, disappears over weekends, or makes no thoughtful effort, it breeds anxiety and self-doubt. This is not a safe or secure attachment pattern — and our body knows it, even before our… Read More 🌹 Therapeutic Response: What I’d Say to a Client
The short answer?Yes — but not all at once, and not before you’re ready. The longer answer?You absolutely can and should share these parts of yourself — but in a way that protects your safety, honours your journey, and happens in the right time and context. Here’s why: 💬 1. It’s About Authenticity, Not Labels You are not your diagnosis.You are a… Read More 🌿 Should You Tell Someone in a New Relationship If You Have Bipolar or ADHD?
“Actions speak louder than words.”It’s something my mother used to say, time and time again. A quiet, firm wisdom she carried with her — one that I only truly understood when life handed me its harder lessons. Words can be beautiful. They can be poetic, comforting, even life-saving. But words alone don’t build trust. Words… Read More 🕊️ When Actions and Words Don’t Match: A Lesson My Mother Taught Me
248 days ago, my world was cracked open by the final blow — not just a moment of pain, but a turning point. A line in the sand. A silent promise to myself that things had to change. I didn’t know then how I’d survive it, let alone how I would heal. But here I am — not… Read More 248 Days Later: A Letter to the Woman I’ve Become
There’s a moment, often hard to believe will ever come, when the weight of trauma begins to lift—not because you force it away, but because you are finally held in a way that feels safe. It’s a moment where the past no longer chains you, where your body stops bracing and freezing, and instead, you melt into… Read More Feeling Alive Again: When Trauma Melts Away in the Arms of Someone Who Truly Sees You
When someone responds to your experience of abuse with judgment, condescension, or a moral high ground, they are not actually engaging with your reality.They are defending theirs. They are protecting the illusion — of the “good” brother, father, son, or uncle. They are shielding the family name, their own egos, their denial.Often, they can’t handle the… Read More Righteousness is a Defence Mechanism — Not a Bridge to Understanding
People often ask survivors of trauma, “Are you afraid of all men?”And my answer is simple: No.I’m not afraid of all men.I’m afraid of one man. That fear isn’t irrational — it’s a lived, embodied response to abuse, manipulation, and violence. But here’s the difference: I’ve done the work. I’ve sat in therapy rooms, spoken my truth out… Read More “No, I’m Not Afraid of All Men – Just One. And That’s OK.”
🗣️ Saying the Right Thing Means Nothing If You Do NothingPolite concern without action is just another form of silence. When I finally told someone what had happened — that I’d been strangled, pinned to a wall, terrified for my life — I wasn’t looking for a parade. I wasn’t asking for a rescue mission.I… Read More Silence
🧠 “You Never Forget the Look in Their Eyes…”A Psychological Perspective on Strangulation, Entrapment, and the False Promises That Follow There are some moments that never leave you.Not because you’re holding a grudge —but because your body will never let you forget what it survived. You never forget the look in their eyes when you’re pinned… Read More 🧠 “You Never Forget the Look in Their Eyes…”
🌬️ Healing After Non-Fatal Strangulation: When the Nervous System Remembers What the Mind Tries to ForgetBecause just because you survived it doesn’t mean your body has. Many survivors of strangulation don’t realize right away how deeply it affected them.They minimize it, brush it off, or say, “But he didn’t leave a mark.”“It was over in seconds.”“I’m fine… Read More 🧠 Strangulation Is a Trauma Stored in the Nervous System
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 