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The Man Who Chooses to Keep Working: Purpose, Pride and the Psychology of Enjoying Life Beyond Retirement

There is something rather wonderful about a man who continues working beyond retirement age, not because he has to, but because he genuinely wants to. A man who enjoys what he does, takes pride in his work, values his skills and finds satisfaction in a job well done offers an interesting insight into the psychology… Read More The Man Who Chooses to Keep Working: Purpose, Pride and the Psychology of Enjoying Life Beyond Retirement

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Grace, Courtesy and Cruelty: How the Way We Treat People Affects the Mind

In a world that can sometimes feel increasingly impatient, competitive and divided, grace and courtesy are not signs of weakness. They are forms of emotional maturity and social responsibility. A kind word, a little patience, listening without interrupting, showing consideration and treating another person with dignity can have a profound effect on how safe and valued… Read More Grace, Courtesy and Cruelty: How the Way We Treat People Affects the Mind

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When Your Success Changes Your Relationships: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Outgrowing Your Old Identity

Success can change the dynamics of relationships, particularly with those who knew you before. Many may struggle to reconcile the new, confident version of you with their past perceptions, leading to criticism or distance. This phenomenon highlights that true friendships thrive on mutual support and understanding of individual growth without insecurity or comparison.… Read More When Your Success Changes Your Relationships: The Psychology and Neuroscience of Outgrowing Your Old Identity

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When a Woman’s Success Becomes a Threat: Female Jealousy, Intimidation and the Psychology of Comparison

Women sometimes feel threatened by each other’s success, confidence, or independence, leading to jealousy that can affect friendships and professional relationships. While jealousy may play a role, many factors like social comparison, self-esteem, and expectations also contribute. Healthy relationships allow mutual support without diminishing individual achievements, recognizing that one woman’s success doesn’t detract from another’s value.… Read More When a Woman’s Success Becomes a Threat: Female Jealousy, Intimidation and the Psychology of Comparison

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Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content explores the complexities of friendships, differentiating between genuine and transactional relationships. It highlights signs of one-sided friendships, the emotional impact when support is not reciprocated, and the importance of mutual respect, honesty, and emotional availability. Ultimately, it emphasizes valuing individuals for who they are rather than what they provide.… Read More Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

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When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses how children learn behaviors from their parents, often unconsciously adopting negative patterns such as manipulation, disrespect, or cruelty. It emphasizes the importance of modeling healthy relationship dynamics, as children may later reflect these learned behaviors back onto their parents. The piece urges introspection on what values are being taught through actions, not just words.… Read More When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You

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What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

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When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Sometimes the most important warning sign isn’t what someone tells you. It’s what they imply they know. Imagine someone makes an apparently casual comment about your child. Perhaps they mention something you didn’t know. Perhaps they imply they have information about your child’s life that hasn’t been shared with you. Perhaps they say: “I know… Read More When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

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