Category: RELATIONSHIPS & RECOVERY

Relationships & Recovery
Exploring how trauma, emotional abuse and difficult relationship experiences can affect the way we connect with others—and how healing can help rebuild trust, boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety and the ability to experience healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content explores the complexities of friendships, differentiating between genuine and transactional relationships. It highlights signs of one-sided friendships, the emotional impact when support is not reciprocated, and the importance of mutual respect, honesty, and emotional availability. Ultimately, it emphasizes valuing individuals for who they are rather than what they provide.… Read More Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You

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Reading Between the Lines: When People’s Words and Actions Don’t Match

Understanding mixed signals in relationships involves recognizing the discrepancies between what individuals say and how they act. Key issues include manipulation, emotional ambivalence, and recurring behavior patterns that reveal underlying intentions. Distinguishing between isolated incidents and repeated behaviors aids in assessing relationship dynamics and making informed decisions without needing to prove others’ motives.… Read More Reading Between the Lines: When People’s Words and Actions Don’t Match

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What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?

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Traditional/standard therapy versus Our bespoke approach

The content compares traditional therapy to a bespoke approach, emphasizing individualized treatment. While standard therapy adheres to a fixed structure, the bespoke model tailors sessions to the client’s needs, incorporating personalized resources and extended support between appointments. This method fosters continuous learning and reflection, creating a more meaningful therapeutic journey.… Read More Traditional/standard therapy versus Our bespoke approach

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Why Our Approach Is Different: Therapy That Continues Between Sessions

You are not a template — so why should your support be? When you have been struggling for a long time, sitting down for an hour and talking about what has happened can be helpful. But sometimes, talking is only the beginning. At Linda CJ Turner, we take a different approach. Rather than placing every client… Read More Why Our Approach Is Different: Therapy That Continues Between Sessions

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“A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

The content explores the psychological dynamics of double standards in relationships, highlighting how one partner may consistently be blamed or invalidated while the other is not. This unequal treatment can lead to feelings of inadequacy, defensiveness, and emotional exhaustion. The text emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the ability to admit mistakes for healthy interactions.… Read More “A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

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“What Did You See in Him?” — Just Look at the Family Photo!

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The author reflects humorously on her unconventional past relationship, contrasting her first husband’s attractiveness with her second’s physical mismatches. She acknowledges that attraction can extend beyond appearance, driven by emotional needs and circumstances. Ultimately, she returns to her original type, illustrating how personal preferences can resurface after significant experiences.… Read More “What Did You See in Him?” — Just Look at the Family Photo!

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