Breaking the Cycle: Confronting Abuse, Ending Silence, and Creating a Better Future

Abuse rarely exists in isolation. It thrives in secrecy, denial, and the unspoken rules that keep families trapped in harmful patterns. Across generations, the effects of abuse can ripple through families, shaping relationships, influencing behaviours, and leaving emotional wounds that may persist for decades. Many families carry painful histories that are never openly discussed. Children… Read More Breaking the Cycle: Confronting Abuse, Ending Silence, and Creating a Better Future

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When the Wounded Child Wants the Parent to Suffer

One of the most difficult emotions for survivors of childhood abuse to talk about is the desire to see an abusive parent suffer. Society expects children to love, forgive, and honour their parents, no matter what happened behind closed doors. As a result, many adult survivors carry feelings of anger, resentment, and even thoughts of… Read More When the Wounded Child Wants the Parent to Suffer

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Revenge

Thailand was only Plan A. When that failed after six weeks and the money ran out, there was already talk of another warm destination for the winter. People with a mercenary mindset often follow the same playbook. The locations change, but the thinking doesn’t—always calculating the next move, the next advantage, the next person or… Read More Revenge

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When Digital Forensics Reveals More Than Expected

In many investigations, digital forensic analysis begins with a specific concern or allegation. However, once phones, computers, and online accounts are examined within a lawful scope, they can sometimes reveal a broader pattern of behaviour than was initially being investigated. This is because modern digital communication is highly interconnected, with messages, backups, social media activity,… Read More When Digital Forensics Reveals More Than Expected

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Forensics

Forensic psychologists can examine phone and computer data, but there’s an important distinction in howand what part they handle. 1. What forensic psychologists actually do A forensic psychologist typically focuses on the psychological interpretation of digital evidence, such as: They use this to form opinions about: 2. Who actually extracts the data The technical retrieval of phone/computer data is usually done by:… Read More Forensics

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Abuse is Abuse

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Abuse is not limited by relationship, gender, or circumstance. It is rooted in power, control, and entitlement. Whether directed at a partner, a child, an animal, or anyone perceived as vulnerable, the pattern is the same: domination and harm. Abusive behaviour does not exist in isolation. It spreads through households, relationships, and environments—sometimes directly, sometimes… Read More Abuse is Abuse

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When Domestic Abuse Crosses Into Child Abuse

Understanding the Overlap Between Intimate Partner Violence and Harm to Children Domestic abuse and child abuse are often discussed as separate issues. In reality, they frequently exist within the same household and can be driven by the same underlying patterns of coercion, control, and entitlement. Research consistently shows that while not every person who abuses… Read More When Domestic Abuse Crosses Into Child Abuse

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