Tag: #trauma

Trauma refers to an emotional or psychological response to an event or series of events that are distressing or disturbing, often exceeding an individual’s ability to cope. Traumatic experiences can be diverse and may include situations such as accidents, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, combat, or the sudden loss of a loved one. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being, leading to a range of symptoms and challenges.

🖤 When Abuse Turns Vindictive: Understanding the Mindset of Those Who Seek to Punish You for Leaving

It takes immense courage to walk away from abuse. But what many people don’t talk about is what can come after you leave—the retaliation. The smears. The stalking. The petty, vindictive attempts to remind you that you dared to reclaim your power. These acts aren’t just born from anger—they’re born from a desperate need to reassert control… Read More 🖤 When Abuse Turns Vindictive: Understanding the Mindset of Those Who Seek to Punish You for Leaving

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💬 “You Seem to Have Healed Very Quickly…”

Let me stop you right there. What you see as quick is actually the result of years of surviving, and finally, one moment that changed everything. That moment?When I was strangled — and told, “I could have easily killed you if I wanted to.” That was the moment something inside me died.Not my spirit — but the illusion that I was safe,… Read More 💬 “You Seem to Have Healed Very Quickly…”

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🕊️ No More — It’s Over At Last

A Letter to the Life I Left Behind No more threats of:“If you leave, I’ll take everything from you.”No more cold stares, quiet punishments, or whispered ultimatums wrapped in false concern.No more holding my peace hostage with guilt, manipulation, or fear. No more:“You just wait until I die.”No more emotional blackmail disguised as love.No more… Read More 🕊️ No More — It’s Over At Last

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💔 From Rock Bottom to Rebirth: A Survivor’s Journey Through Trauma and Transformation

There comes a time in life when everything changes — not gently, not slowly, but in a tidal wave that leaves you breathless, broken, and unsure if you’ll ever feel whole again. This is for anyone who has stood at the edge of despair and somehow found their way back to life. Here’s what that… Read More 💔 From Rock Bottom to Rebirth: A Survivor’s Journey Through Trauma and Transformation

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“One Year Ago vs. Now – From Surviving to Truly Living”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

✨ A therapist’s healing journey through trauma, neuroscience, and renewal ✨ One year ago, I was still surviving. I was functioning — smiling on the outside, getting through the days, using every tool in my therapeutic kit to stay afloat. But deep down, my nervous system was in constant overdrive. I was holding on… barely. Today, I… Read More “One Year Ago vs. Now – From Surviving to Truly Living”

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You Have Survived the Storm. Now It’s Time to Live.

The Final Release from Abuse – Psychological and Neuroscientific Insights For so long, your life may have felt like a war zone — emotionally, mentally, and even physically. You became hyper-aware, constantly bracing for the next outburst, the next silent treatment, the next mind game. You survived not just a toxic relationship, but a long-term… Read More You Have Survived the Storm. Now It’s Time to Live.

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When the Abuser Runs Out of Supply: The Unraveling That Follows

For many survivors of emotional, psychological, or narcissistic abuse, the focus of recovery is (rightfully) on healing the deep wounds left behind. But a question often lingers in the background — what happens to the abuser once you walk away? Once their source of attention, validation, and emotional fuel is gone, what becomes of them? The short… Read More When the Abuser Runs Out of Supply: The Unraveling That Follows

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“God help anyone in this family who ever wants to leave…”

A reality check on what happens when power and control masquerade as “family loyalty.” 1. The Unspoken Contract In some families, love is conditional. The unwritten rule is simple: Break that contract—by exposing abuse, filing for separation, or even hinting that you deserve better—and the family machine revs into gear. Reputation, assets, and relationships become… Read More “God help anyone in this family who ever wants to leave…”

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Should You Tell Your New Partner About the Abuse You’ve Endured?

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

The short answer? Yes — but only when it feels safe, right, and empowering for you. You don’t owe anyone your entire story, especially not all at once. But when you’re building a new, healthy relationship — especially after surviving years of emotional, physical, or psychological abuse — opening up gradually about your past can create the foundation… Read More Should You Tell Your New Partner About the Abuse You’ve Endured?

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