Abuse is a term that refers to the mistreatment, harm, or infliction of injury on someone, either through physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or other means. Abuse can occur in various contexts, including relationships, families, institutions, and broader social settings. It is a serious violation of an individual’s rights and can have profound and lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.
“I Don’t Remember That” — When Gaslighting Disguises Itself as Forgetfulness Over seven years ago, I found myself at breaking point.In France.In tears.In pain.I went to someone I thought I could trust — someone who promised me, “You can come to me for help.” She told me she would speak to him. That I wasn’t alone.… Read More 🧠 Not the Person You Think They Are -“I Don’t Remember That”
When Control Crosses the Line—Again. There’s a point where “concerned family” becomes controlling, where “checking in” turns into obsession, and where “staying connected” slips into outright stalking. I’ve reached that point. Again. Despite a legal restraining order—clear, binding, and put in place for very real reasons—certain relatives continue to cross boundaries with no respect for law, therapy, or healing.… Read More 🚨 Not the Person You Think They Are – When Control Crosses the Line—Again.
🔍 Mobile Phone Evidence in Abuse, Stalking & Psychological Control Behind closed doors and locked screens, phones can reveal the truth behind the mask. In psychological abuse and safeguarding cases, mobile phones are often one of the most crucial sources of evidence. Whether it’s manipulation, threats, inappropriate content, or stalking — digital trails tell a story that victims are often… Read More 📱 “Not the Person You Think They Are”
One of the strangest—and, honestly, almost surreal—aspects of emotional abuse and manipulation is how the stories people tell can crumble when reality steps onto the stage. A few weeks ago, during court proceedings, some rather pathetic lies were told about his health and condition. Yet, my friends from the choir—who also happen to play padel at the exact… Read More Not the Person You Think They Are: When Lies Get Caught on the Court
Two weeks before the “all clear,” the words echoed in a message I received:“I was shocked how ill he looked when I saw him, so this may be concluded sooner than you think.” What struck me most was the contradiction underneath those words. The very same person, behind closed doors, was playing tennis seven days a… Read More Not the Person You Think They Are: When Public Personas Hide Private Realities
Twelve photographs of him playing padel – fit and healthy, mid-match. A hospital report from 4th November showing he’s completely clear. No terminal illness. No chronic condition. No impending doom. This is the same man who, under oath in court, portrayed himself as a weak, dying man in March this year. A victim of life.… Read More 🎭 Not the Person You Think They Are – When Illness Becomes a Manipulation Tool 🎭
In Spain, the possession, distribution, or production of illicit images involving minors — commonly referred to as child sexual abuse material (CSAM) — is not just unethical. It is a criminal offense punishable by severe penalties, even if the images are not shared but simply stored on a device. According to Spanish law, any visual content depicting individuals under 18 in… Read More 📱 If You Find Illicit Images of Minors on Someone’s Phone: What You Need to Know — And Do
You are not alone. You never were.But when you’re in the midst of emotional or physical abuse, it can feel like no one understands. You may feel silenced, ashamed, or afraid to reach out. That’s why I’m creating something just for you—a private, supportive online community where you can breathe, speak, connect, and heal. 💬 COMING… Read More 🌿 Coming Soon: A Safe, Healing Space for Survivors — Our Domestic Abuse Support Forum on Facebook
If you’re reading this, I want you to know something right from the start: you are not alone, and there is nothing wrong with you. Living in a situation where love, safety, and peace are missing takes a toll on the mind, heart, and nervous system. I’ve worked with many brave individuals who were told for years… Read More Supporting You: When and How to Leave Domestic Violence — You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
In the age of digital communication, our phones and social media accounts often hold our most intimate moments—private messages, personal photos, and emotional lifelines. So when someone hacks into those spaces, it isn’t just a cybercrime—it’s a deeply personal violation. But knowing when to go to the police, especially across two legal systems like the UK and… Read More 📲 WHEN TO HAND OVER EVIDENCE: Standing Up to Digital Invasion with Courage and Clarity 🇬🇧🇪🇸
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 