Relationships & Recovery
Exploring how trauma, emotional abuse and difficult relationship experiences can affect the way we connect with others—and how healing can help rebuild trust, boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety and the ability to experience healthy, fulfilling relationships.
The content discusses the impact of adult behavior on children’s understanding of kindness and relationships. It highlights the contradiction between teaching respect while adults engage in cruel behavior for amusement. The text emphasizes that children learn from adult actions, urging a reflection on how choices can influence their values and treatment of others.… Read More What Are We Really Teaching Our Children?
The content compares traditional therapy to a bespoke approach, emphasizing individualized treatment. While standard therapy adheres to a fixed structure, the bespoke model tailors sessions to the client’s needs, incorporating personalized resources and extended support between appointments. This method fosters continuous learning and reflection, creating a more meaningful therapeutic journey.… Read More Traditional/standard therapy versus Our bespoke approach
You are not a template — so why should your support be? When you have been struggling for a long time, sitting down for an hour and talking about what has happened can be helpful. But sometimes, talking is only the beginning. At Linda CJ Turner, we take a different approach. Rather than placing every client… Read More Why Our Approach Is Different: Therapy That Continues Between Sessions
Why do some people criticise others behind their backs but act sweet to their faces? Explore the psychology of gossip, superiority, impression management, social perception and trust.… Read More Don’t Insult People’s Intelligence: When Your Behaviour Tells a Completely Different Story
The content explores the psychological dynamics of double standards in relationships, highlighting how one partner may consistently be blamed or invalidated while the other is not. This unequal treatment can lead to feelings of inadequacy, defensiveness, and emotional exhaustion. The text emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the ability to admit mistakes for healthy interactions.… Read More “A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me
Discover how ego, cognitive dissonance, emotional threat and confirmation bias can distort our perception, interfere with sensible decisions and prevent personal growth.… Read More When Ego Gets in the Way of Reality: The Neuroscience and Psychology of Self-Deception
The author reflects humorously on her unconventional past relationship, contrasting her first husband’s attractiveness with her second’s physical mismatches. She acknowledges that attraction can extend beyond appearance, driven by emotional needs and circumstances. Ultimately, she returns to her original type, illustrating how personal preferences can resurface after significant experiences.… Read More “What Did You See in Him?” — Just Look at the Family Photo!
Explore the psychology of hidden vindictiveness, moral superiority, impression management and indirect retaliation, and how to recognise harmful patterns without assuming motives.… Read More Covert Vindictiveness: When Someone Pretends to Have Integrity but Retaliates in Private
Explore how conditional affection, financial withholding and public generosity alongside private neglect can affect self-worth, emotional safety and recovery from controlling relationships.… Read More The Bare Minimum: When Love, Affection, Generosity and Even Basic Kindness Become Transactions
Children raised in abusive environments often carry deep emotional scars into adulthood, leading to unresolved anger and a desire for revenge against their abuser, particularly a parent. This anger can strain family relationships and perpetuate cycles of trauma. Healing requires acknowledgment, boundaries, and sometimes professional support to break free from the past.… Read More Healing Family Trauma: Letting Go of Anger Toward Abusive Parents
