Category: ABUSE

Abuse is a term that refers to the mistreatment, harm, or infliction of injury on someone, either through physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or other means. Abuse can occur in various contexts, including relationships, families, institutions, and broader social settings. It is a serious violation of an individual’s rights and can have profound and lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and psychological well-being.

🕯️ Charm, Sex & the Lure: The Neuroscience and Psychology of Seduction-as-Manipulation

People of any gender can use charm and sex as a strategy — intentionally or unconsciously — to gain power, control, or resources from others. Because these tactics hijack the brain’s bonding and reward systems, they can feel intoxicating and convincing. Understanding the science behind them helps survivors reclaim clarity, protect themselves, and heal. 1)… Read More 🕯️ Charm, Sex & the Lure: The Neuroscience and Psychology of Seduction-as-Manipulation

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🚀 Billy Bullshitter: The Neuroscience of the Pretend Entrepreneur, Rocket Scientist, Playboy, and Brain Surgeon

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

🎭 The Performance Meet Billy Bullshitter.On paper — or rather, on profile — he’s a visionary entrepreneur, self-taught pilot, retired brain surgeon, and part-time philosopher who “just loves deep conversations about the universe.” In reality, he’s an ordinary guy in search of extraordinary validation. Billy’s not trying to sell a product. He’s selling himself — or rather, a carefully… Read More 🚀 Billy Bullshitter: The Neuroscience of the Pretend Entrepreneur, Rocket Scientist, Playboy, and Brain Surgeon

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The Neuroscience of Manipulative Touch: When Affection Becomes Control

Touch is one of the most powerful forms of human communication. A gentle hand on the shoulder, a comforting hug, or a warm embrace can lower stress hormones, release oxytocin (the “bonding hormone”), and strengthen emotional connection. But neuroscience also shows that touch can be used in darker, more self-serving ways — as a tool… Read More The Neuroscience of Manipulative Touch: When Affection Becomes Control

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The Psychology of Self-Deception: Why Living a Lie Leads to Emotional Suffering

Some people spend their lives constructing illusions — pretending, manipulating, performing — and then wonder why they feel hollow, anxious, or lost.Deception may protect the ego for a while, but it eventually corrodes the mind that sustains it.Living a lie isn’t just a moral problem; it’s a neuropsychological burden that keeps the brain and body in constant… Read More The Psychology of Self-Deception: Why Living a Lie Leads to Emotional Suffering

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🌿 How to Reset Your Nervous System After Mixed Signals

When someone’s words say “I care” but their actions say “I’m gone,” your body doesn’t just feel sad — it becomes confused at a biological level.The nervous system is wired to detect safety or threat, not maybe.Mixed signals keep it swinging between connection and rejection, flooding you with cortisol one moment and craving oxytocin the next.Healing means teaching your brain and body… Read More 🌿 How to Reset Your Nervous System After Mixed Signals

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Coercion, Threats & Divorce: Evidence Checklist & Support Contacts

(UK / Spain) Step 1: Preserve Evidence Safely Keep digital or physical copies without putting yourself at risk. Type of Evidence What to Collect / Save Messages / Emails Texts, WhatsApps, Messenger, emails showing threats, pressure, or demands. Include timestamps. Voicemails / Recordings Save threatening calls or voice notes. Check local law before recording. Witnesses Names… Read More Coercion, Threats & Divorce: Evidence Checklist & Support Contacts

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Drop the court case!

Demanding someone drop a court case and threatening they’ll “get nothing” in the divorce unless they do — can amount to coercive/controlling behaviour, threats, blackmail or undue pressure. It can be criminal and it will also affect family/civil proceedings (and the safety of the person pressured). Crown Prosecution Service+1 Below I’ve summarised what that means in practice,… Read More Drop the court case!

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