List of Unhealthy and Inappropriate Behaviours When an Adult Watches a Young Child

The following behaviours may raise safeguarding concerns, particularly when an adult is watching a young child without a legitimate reason. Watching a young child repeatedly from a distance without a reasonable explanation. Using binoculars to observe a child closely, particularly when the child is unaware they are being watched. Deliberately singling out one child rather… Read More List of Unhealthy and Inappropriate Behaviours When an Adult Watches a Young Child

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When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Sometimes the most important warning sign isn’t what someone tells you. It’s what they imply they know. Imagine someone makes an apparently casual comment about your child. Perhaps they mention something you didn’t know. Perhaps they imply they have information about your child’s life that hasn’t been shared with you. Perhaps they say: “I know… Read More When Someone Suggests They Know Something About A Child That You Don’t Know — Don’t Ignore the Alarm Bells

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Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

The content discusses the complexities of recognizing and addressing potential grooming behaviors towards children by trusted individuals. It emphasizes the psychological challenges parents face when confronted with allegations against those they know and care for, urging them to remain vigilant for warning signs and prioritize their children’s safety above discomfort or reputations.… Read More Would You Believe the Evidence — or Protect the Person You Love?

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Deny, Deny, Deny: The Psychology of Denial When Someone Is Confronted With Evidence of Grooming

The text discusses how denial, defensiveness, loyalty, and fear can impact responses to suspected grooming behaviors. It highlights psychological conflicts individuals face when confronted with evidence against trusted people, often resulting in minimizing concerns or attacking the witness instead of addressing the allegations. The focus should remain on investigating behavior, not reputation.… Read More Deny, Deny, Deny: The Psychology of Denial When Someone Is Confronted With Evidence of Grooming

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“A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

The content explores the psychological dynamics of double standards in relationships, highlighting how one partner may consistently be blamed or invalidated while the other is not. This unequal treatment can lead to feelings of inadequacy, defensiveness, and emotional exhaustion. The text emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the ability to admit mistakes for healthy interactions.… Read More “A Turner Is Never Wrong” — Except, Apparently, When It Comes to Me

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😂 WHEN SOMEONE THINKS THEY’RE GOD’S GIFT… BUT FORGOT TO CHECK THE RECEIPT

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

You know the type… They walk into a room like they’ve just been personally delivered by the heavens. 👑 Head in the clouds. Ego through the roof. Self-awareness somewhere in another postcode. 😂 And then, when someone actually shows an interest in them: “I can’t believe they want to go out with ME!” Darling… Have… Read More 😂 WHEN SOMEONE THINKS THEY’RE GOD’S GIFT… BUT FORGOT TO CHECK THE RECEIPT

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