🌍 Global reality (worldwide)
🔴 Women murdered (femicide)
- Around 50,000 women and girls per year are killed by a partner or family member
- That is:
- ~137 women every day
- Roughly 1 woman every 10 minutes
- Total female homicides (all causes) are higher:
- Around 80,000–85,000 women per year globally
👉 The key point:
Most women are killed by someone they know, not strangers.
💔 Suicide linked to abuse
This is harder to measure (and often hidden), but:
- Domestic abuse is strongly linked to:
- Depression
- PTSD
- Suicide risk
- Many experts believe suicides linked to abuse are underreported
- Some regional research suggests:
- Significant numbers of women who die by suicide have experienced abuse
👉 Important truth:
These deaths are often not officially recorded as abuse-related, even when they are.
🇪🇸 Spain
- Around 50–60 women per year are killed by partners/ex-partners in Spain
- Tens of thousands report gender violence annually
- e.g. 34,000+ cases recorded in 2024
👉 Again, these are only reported cases—the real number is higher.
🧠 Neuroscience & psychology behind this
Why women are not believed (and the consequences)
The brain plays a major role in this:
1. Just-world bias
People want to believe:
“Bad things don’t happen without a reason”
So they ask:
- “Why didn’t she leave?”
- “What did she do?”
👉 This reduces their own fear—but blames the victim
2. Cognitive dissonance
People struggle to accept:
- “He seems normal”
- “He is dangerous”
So they resolve it by:
- Doubting the woman
- Minimising the behaviour
3. Normalisation over time
When warning signs are ignored:
- Behaviour escalates
- Risk increases
- Intervention comes too late
⚠️ The hard truth
- Many women report concerns before they are killed
- Many are not fully believed, supported, or protected in time
- Many cases show patterns of prior abuse
👉 Which means:
These deaths are often not sudden.
They are the end of a pattern that was missed, minimised, or ignored.
💬 Final reality
How many die.
The answer is:
- Tens of thousands murdered globally every year
- Many more driven to suicide
- Millions living with abuse
But the most important truth is this:
👉 It is not just about numbers
👉 It is about patterns not being taken seriously early enough