What counts as family harassment?

Family harassment in Spain is taken seriously under both criminal law and police protection systems (including VioGén when relevant). It can apply even if there is no physical violence. Here’s a clear breakdown: 👨‍👩‍👧 What counts as family harassment? Family or “domestic” harassment can include behaviour from: It usually involves repeated unwanted behaviour that creates fear, distress,… Read More What counts as family harassment?

Structured risk assessment tools (VPR / VPER)

Here’s how police in Spain typically assess ongoing risk after long-term domestic violence or harassment cases(including cases that have been through restraining orders and may be in or out of VioGén monitoring). 🟡 1. Risk is not based on time — it’s based on behaviour patterns Police and risk assessors do not use a “time passed =… Read More Structured risk assessment tools (VPR / VPER)

Harassment (acoso)

Here’s a clear, practical explanation of what can still count as harassment, stalking, or indirect contact in Spain after a restraining order has expired. Even when an order ends, certain behaviours can still be treated as new offences under Spanish law if they are unwanted, repeated, or cause distress. 🚨 1. Harassment (acoso) This is repeated behaviour that disturbs… Read More Harassment (acoso)

Your Lawyer Doesn’t Have to Believe You

One of life’s great misunderstandings is the idea that a lawyer only represents innocent people. Imagine the interview. Client: “I’m completely blameless.” Lawyer: “Of course you are.” What the lawyer is actually thinking is probably closer to: “Where are the documents?” Lawyers are not hired to become members of your fan club. They are hired to explain… Read More Your Lawyer Doesn’t Have to Believe You

Exposing Predators: Why Secrecy Is Their Greatest Protection

When people hear the word predator, they often imagine a stranger lurking in the shadows. Reality is usually far more ordinary—and far more unsettling. Many predators are not obviously threatening. They can be charming, successful, generous, funny, respected, or deeply involved in their communities. Their public image often becomes part of their protection. The Psychology of… Read More Exposing Predators: Why Secrecy Is Their Greatest Protection

When No One Takes a Vulnerable Adult Seriously: What Can Be Done?

One of the most distressing experiences a vulnerable adult—or someone advocating on their behalf—can face is being dismissed when raising concerns about abuse or neglect. Whether the response is disbelief, delay, minimisation, or complete inaction, the impact is the same: the situation continues without protection or resolution. So what can be done when systems, professionals, or… Read More When No One Takes a Vulnerable Adult Seriously: What Can Be Done?

Why record it?

The death of Katherine ‘Kat’ Torbick, a 43-year-old nurse and mother from Schaumburg, Illinois. Prosecutors allege that her former boyfriend, Kevin Motykie, subjected her to a prolonged assault that was captured on a recording device found after his arrest. Authorities allege the recording lasted more than seven hours and documented arguments, restraint, violence, and ultimately… Read More Why record it?

When Actions and Evidence Don’t Match the Story

For a long time, I questioned my own judgement because I was repeatedly presented with stories, explanations and accusations that simply did not make sense. Over time, however, documents, reports, emails, recordings and independent evidence began to paint a very different picture. Two years later, many of the claims that caused so much confusion can… Read More When Actions and Evidence Don’t Match the Story

Reporting Teachers in England

In the United Kingdom, concerns about teachers, safeguarding staff, social workers, or professionals working with children can be reported through several official channels depending on the role and seriousness of the allegations. Reporting Teachers in England The main professional body is the Teaching Regulation Agency (TRA). They investigate serious professional misconduct including: You can report concerns… Read More Reporting Teachers in England

Cross Over Cases

When a forensic investigation uncovers something unexpected that appears related to a different crime or different case, that’s often called “evidence of other offenses” or, informally, a spillover discovery (sometimes discussed under the legal idea of plain view in some jurisdictions). What usually happens: 1. The examiner documents it If, while lawfully searching for one thing, investigators find evidence of another possible… Read More Cross Over Cases