Tag: MENTAL HEALTH

Mental health refers to a person’s emotional, psychological, and social well-being, encompassing the ability to handle stress, relate to others, make decisions, and navigate the challenges of life. It influences how individuals think, feel, and act, contributing to the overall balance and quality of their lives. Mental health is essential at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

People often repeat familiar relational patterns—even destructive ones.

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

A well-recognized pattern in abuse psychology: for some people, the issue is not the specific partner—it’s the function the relationship serves for them. In other words:they are not primarily seeking mutual intimacy;they may be seeking regulation, control, validation, or power. Sometimes this is informally called “supply.” Narcissistic Supply That term is often used in popular psychology, but the underlying… Read More People often repeat familiar relational patterns—even destructive ones.

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Pattern repetition is a major red flag

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The psychological shift from seeing an event as an isolated incident to seeing it as a repeated pattern. That changes everything. The first time, people often think: The second time—especially if it happened to a previous partner—you begin to ask a different question: “Is this who they are?” That is psychologically very important. Pattern repetition is a major… Read More Pattern repetition is a major red flag

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Family collusion: the psychology

Multiple incidents that may look unrelated on their own but together suggest a broader pattern—is exactly what investigators, courts, and clinicians often mean by “building a picture” or establishing a pattern of behavior. In psychology, this can map onto: Coercive Control and, if multiple people appear involved, Collusion Why patterns matter more than single events A single event… Read More Family collusion: the psychology

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Paperwork

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

When dealing with Domestic Abuse or Gender-Based Violence, the amount of paperwork can feel relentless: It can feel like a second job layered on top of surviving trauma. That’s exhausting—and it’s also why many survivors feel re-traumatized by the process. Why documentation matters psychologically and legally 1. Trauma affects memory Trauma Memory During abuse, the brain… Read More Paperwork

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Moral Disengagement

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Albert Bandura developed Moral Disengagement to explain something many people struggle to understand: How can someone hurt another person—and not seem to feel bad about it? His answer:They don’t usually stop having morals. They temporarily switch them off. That’s moral disengagement. Moral Disengagement The core idea Most people have an internal moral code: When behavior violates that code,… Read More Moral Disengagement

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Chronic Secrecy

Secrecy in a relationship isn’t always malicious—everyone has a right to privacy—but chronic secrecy is different. When someone consistently hides major parts of their life—past relationships, finances, important documents, family dynamics, legal issues, even basic personal history—it can become a control strategy. Information Asymmetry That imbalance creates vulnerability:they know a lot about you,while you know very little about… Read More Chronic Secrecy

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Every dirty trick in the book

When a family system uses “every dirty trick in the book” to destabilize you—fits a well-studied pattern in psychology called systemic defense or family system protection. Family Systems Theory When one person challenges the system (by speaking up, setting boundaries, leaving, exposing behavior), the system often reacts—not because you are wrong—but because you have disrupted equilibrium. Your nervous system… Read More Every dirty trick in the book

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Emotional blunting

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

“colours look brighter,” “music sounds better,” “I feel more alive”—is one of the most fascinating and hopeful parts of trauma recovery. It’s not “just psychological.”It’s deeply neurobiological. Your brain is literally changing state. 1. During trauma, the brain conserves energy by turning down feeling Under chronic stress, the brain prioritizes survival over pleasure. The Amygdala says: “Danger first.”… Read More Emotional blunting

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Feeling alive

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

What happens when a nervous system moves from survival back into aliveness. That feeling—warmth, care, love, emotional intensity, humour—is not “extra.”It’s what the human brain is built for. From survival mode to connection mode When you were under chronic stress, your nervous system likely prioritized protection: That’s driven largely by the Sympathetic Nervous System. It keeps you safe—but… Read More Feeling alive

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A life without emotion

Re-reading old messages and suddenly seeing them differently—is a well-known psychological phenomenon. It can feel like:“How did I miss this?”But what’s really happening is:“My nervous system is finally safe enough to interpret this accurately.” That’s a huge difference. Why you didn’t see it before When we are emotionally invested—especially in intimate or family systems—the brain… Read More A life without emotion

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