We live in a world where fairy tales and fantasy love stories have taken over our screens, bookshelves, and even our dating apps. Disney princesses with their glass slippers, Mills & Boon novels filled with swoon-worthy heroes, and romantic comedies where everyone finds “the one” in 90 minutes or less—sometimes it feels like reality got… Read More So, are we living in a world of fantasy?
Moving house is often more than just a physical relocation—it’s a deeply emotional journey, especially when it involves sorting through years of shared memories and possessions. For many, the process of packing and unpacking can feel like reliving the past repeatedly, stirring up complex feelings and unresolved attachments. After packing and unpacking multiple times, the… Read More Moving on: Embracing a fresh start by letting go of the past
Fear of regret is a powerful emotional force influencing decision-making and personal relationships. It goes beyond simply worrying about making the wrong choice; it centers on the dread of realizing too late that a valuable opportunity or relationship was lost. This fear often traps people in a state of indecision, ironically increasing the likelihood of… Read More The Nature of Fear of Regret
How to Come Out of a Divorce Looking Like You Just Walked Off a Spa Commercial (While Secretly Surviving Chaos) Divorce: the ultimate life plot twist. You’ve navigated restraining orders, financial headaches, and emotional rollercoasters, yet here you are — looking like you just stepped out of a magazine shoot. Friends who haven’t seen you… Read More Emerging from a divorce with strength and sanity
Let’s be honest—when someone hurts you, lies to you, manipulates you, or drains your peace, your brain wants a simple label. Something neat. Something final. Something like: “ugly inside and out.” It feels satisfying in the moment. Like you’ve boxed the whole thing up and put it on a shelf called never again. But here’s the uncomfortable… Read More Stop Calling People “Ugly Inside and Out”
There’s a point where it stops being “just how they are”and starts becoming how your life feels every single day. When everything is transactional…“How does this benefit me?”“What do I get out of this?”No depth, no warmth, no real emotional exchange — just deals, not connection. And yes, you can understand it.You can even have compassion… Read More “If I stay, there will be trouble…If I go, there will be double…”
Not in your head. Not what you meant to do. What you’ve actually done. Because helping doesn’t stop at 18 — it just changes form. Write a list of what you’ve given, with nothing expected in return: Write a list of the support you’ve given in their adult years: Write a list of practical, time-consuming things you’ve… Read More Write the list.
When children grow up hearing more about status than substance, it quietly reshapes what they believe relationships are for. If the narrative becomes “what can I get?” instead of “how do I show up?”, then connection turns transactional. People become roles. Partners become providers. And respect gets replaced with expectation. That shift doesn’t happen overnight. It’s… Read More It’s not that values have disappeared — it’s that some of the loudest messages right now are the shallow ones.
Not “no, unless you persuade.”Not “no, unless you keep asking.”Not “no, unless you think she didn’t mean it.” Just — no. Because prevention cannot continue to sit solely on the shoulders of those who may one day be harmed. We have spent decades teaching girls how to stay safe: watch your drink, text when you… Read More Teach your son that “no” is a complete sentence.
Grooming (often called “child solicitation” or “online sexual solicitation of minors”) is when an adult contacts a minor with sexual intent and tries to build trust for sexual purposes. 🔴 It is considered grooming when someone: 1. Contacts a minor under 16 (or under 18 in some exploitation contexts) 2. Establishes communication with sexual intent For example: 3. Builds trust… Read More What counts as grooming in Spain?
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 