Category: RELATIONSHIPS & RECOVERY

Relationships & Recovery
Exploring how trauma, emotional abuse and difficult relationship experiences can affect the way we connect with others—and how healing can help rebuild trust, boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety and the ability to experience healthy, fulfilling relationships.

🧠 1. The Developing Brain: Why Protection Matters

Protecting your children and grandchildren—both online and in real life—is one of the most vital responsibilities we hold as adults. From a neuroscientific and psychological perspective, it’s not just about setting limits or saying “no.” It’s about shaping the developing brain, nurturing emotional safety, and building the inner compass that helps children protect themselves even when you’re not there. Here’s a full, rich… Read More 🧠 1. The Developing Brain: Why Protection Matters

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🫀 Strangulation is Trauma. Recovery is Sacred.

🧠 What happens to the brain and body — and how to heal after being strangled Strangulation is not just an act of physical violence — it’s one of the most psychologically devastating and neurologically disruptive forms of abuse. It is one of the clearest predictors of future lethal violence in relationships. And yet, so many survivors are told to “let it… Read More 🫀 Strangulation is Trauma. Recovery is Sacred.

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🥦 Trauma Recovery and Nutrition: Why Eating Well Helps You Heal

When we think of trauma recovery, most of us think of therapy, journaling, or support groups. But what we often overlook is something we do multiple times a day: eating. What you eat profoundly affects how you feel, how your brain functions, and how your body recovers from stress. In trauma therapy, we talk a lot about the… Read More 🥦 Trauma Recovery and Nutrition: Why Eating Well Helps You Heal

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Exercise can play a powerful role in trauma recovery

Exercise can play a powerful role in trauma recovery — not just for physical health, but for emotional regulation, nervous system balance, and rebuilding a sense of safety and connection with the body. Many trauma survivors become disconnected from their physical selves, experiencing either numbness or hyperarousal (like anxiety, panic, tension). Movement can help bridge that gap.… Read More Exercise can play a powerful role in trauma recovery

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📚 Essential Reading for Trauma Recovery

A mix of science, soul, and somatic wisdom 🧠 Neuroscience & Understanding Trauma “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der KolkThe foundational text for understanding how trauma lives in the body. A powerful mix of case studies, neuroscience, and practical healing modalities from EMDR to yoga. “Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma” by Peter A.… Read More 📚 Essential Reading for Trauma Recovery

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🧠 7 Cognitive Restructuring Exercises for Trauma Recovery

1. “Name the Narrative” Exercise Goal: Build awareness of automatic thoughts and their roots.Why: Many thoughts we have are internalized voices from abusers, not our own truth. How: “Whose voice is this?” “Where did I first learn to think this way?” “Is this a fact or a fear?” Write it down in a journal under the heading: “Narratives I’m… Read More 🧠 7 Cognitive Restructuring Exercises for Trauma Recovery

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Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence—from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror

Violence, whether born from intimate betrayal or state-sanctioned terror, leaves a mark not only on bodies but deep within the psyche. It fractures the world into before and after, into safe and unsafe, into known and unknown. Yet, in the wreckage left behind, healing is not only possible—it can also be transformative. The journey from… Read More Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence—from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror

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Freedom, Love, and Truth: Why I Am Happier Now Than Ever Before

Today, as I sit and reflect on everything I have lived through, I feel something stronger than pain, stronger than anger, stronger even than the scars left behind:I feel freedom.I feel gratitude.I feel love. After years — decades — of living under control, manipulation, fear, and emotional deprivation, I am finally free to live my life on my own… Read More Freedom, Love, and Truth: Why I Am Happier Now Than Ever Before

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One Year On: When They Move On Freely While You’re Still Healing from the Wreckage

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Almost one year ago, he announced he had a girlfriend. Not to sit down and honestly talk about the end of a 32-year life partnership. Not to give you space, truth, or dignity. But quietly — an unveiling after months, maybe longer, of secrets. And now, almost… Read More One Year On: When They Move On Freely While You’re Still Healing from the Wreckage

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🗣️ The Healing Power of Speaking Your Truth: Why Sharing Your Story is a Radical Act of Recovery

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & AdvocateNeuroscience Meets Empowerment for Survivors of Abuse There’s a moment in every healing journey when the silence becomes too loud. When the weight of carrying your story alone feels heavier than the fear of being seen. If you’re standing at that edge — preparing to share your truth… Read More 🗣️ The Healing Power of Speaking Your Truth: Why Sharing Your Story is a Radical Act of Recovery

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