Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda C J Turner - Your Journey to Emotional Wellness | Emotional Trauma Therapist | EMDR | CBT | NLP |

Understanding Axis II and Cluster B Personality Disorders: A Deep Dive into Psychological Classification

By Linda C J Turner TherapyTrauma-Informed Practice | Neuroscience | Emotional Intelligence 🧠 Why This Matters In the world of psychology, understanding personality disorders—especially those grouped under Axis II, Cluster B—can be life-changing. Whether you’re a mental health professional, survivor of emotional abuse, or someone striving to understand a loved one’s behavior, these terms hold profound meaning.… Read More Understanding Axis II and Cluster B Personality Disorders: A Deep Dive into Psychological Classification

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🌿 Moving Into New Territory: What to Expect When You’re Getting to Know Someone New

By Linda C J Turner TherapyEmotional Intelligence | Trauma-Informed Healing | Real Talk for Real Relationships 🌀 The Beginning Is a Beautiful Unknown There’s a certain magic in new connections—the spark of possibility, the laughter you didn’t see coming, the late-night chats where you’re both just starting to peel back the layers. But alongside the magic… Read More 🌿 Moving Into New Territory: What to Expect When You’re Getting to Know Someone New

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📱💔 “It Was Just a Phone…” — No, It Was Emotional Inequality Disguised as Practicality

Spring cleaning uncovered something unexpected:A brand-new phone box. €499.Not mine.It was never for me. When I needed a phone, I was told I didn’t need one. That money was tight. That it would have to be a joint birthday and Christmas present. And when I finally got one? It was second-hand. A worn-out iPhone. A leftover. This… Read More 📱💔 “It Was Just a Phone…” — No, It Was Emotional Inequality Disguised as Practicality

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🌪️ Disturbing Discoveries During a Spring Clean: When the Past Won’t Stay Packed Away

I’ve been having a spring clean — the kind that’s supposed to feel fresh and freeing. But instead of peace, I’ve found something else: 🎄🎂 Birthday and Christmas cards.Dozens of them.Cards he gave me over the years.Cards that were once sealed in a taped-up box under the bed — tucked away, put to rest.Now? They’ve been deliberately taken out and hidden… Read More 🌪️ Disturbing Discoveries During a Spring Clean: When the Past Won’t Stay Packed Away

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🧠 When the Past Creeps Back: A Spring Clean, Scattered Memories, and the Psychology of Control

I was doing a spring clean — one of those deep, soul-clearing kinds where you’re ready to let go and move forward. But as I opened drawers and lifted bedding packed away for winter, I began finding old birthday and Christmas cards from him. Not just one. Dozens. Hidden in wardrobes, tucked under sheets, slipped between books,… Read More 🧠 When the Past Creeps Back: A Spring Clean, Scattered Memories, and the Psychology of Control

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Hypocrisy, Projection, and the Brain: Understanding Manipulative Behavior Through a Psychological and Neuroscientific Lens

There is something deeply unsettling about people who demand ethical perfection from others while covertly breaking those very rules themselves. Hypocrisy — particularly the kind cloaked in moral superiority — is more than just frustrating; it can be psychologically damaging, especially in intimate relationships. When someone manipulates ethics for personal gain, projects their own behavior… Read More Hypocrisy, Projection, and the Brain: Understanding Manipulative Behavior Through a Psychological and Neuroscientific Lens

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💡 I Don’t Want to Chase Love Anymore — I Want Peace, Honesty, and Connection

Mirror Neurons Remember You’ve already learned each other’s emotional language. Your bodies synchronize. Your heart rate, your breathing — quietly mirror each other’s. That’s empathy at the cellular level. That’s why their touch feels like déjà vu.

After decades of emotional manipulation and confusion, I’ve learned what I don’t want — and in that space, I’ve finally discovered what I need. I don’t want to chase anyone ever again.I don’t want to be left guessing how someone feels, where I stand, or if I’m enough.I don’t want vague answers, cold silences, or half-truths.I don’t want a partner who… Read More 💡 I Don’t Want to Chase Love Anymore — I Want Peace, Honesty, and Connection

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💔 True Love Is Given Freely — Not Forced, Coerced, or Demanded

Let’s get one thing straight:No one wants to be with someone who had to be forced to correct their behaviour. Whether it’s going to therapy, treating you with respect, owning up to their actions, or even just showing basic kindness — if it only happens after an ultimatum, a court case, or the risk of losing you,… Read More 💔 True Love Is Given Freely — Not Forced, Coerced, or Demanded

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🧠 Re-education & Gender Violence Programs in Spain for Offenders

In Spain, people convicted of domestic or gender-based violence (violencia de género) may be required to attend court-mandated re-education or intervention programs aimed at: These are referred to as “programas de intervención para agresores” and are part of Spain’s integrated legal and social response to gender violence. 📚 What the Programs Involve: 👮 Who Oversees These Programs? 🛑 Are… Read More 🧠 Re-education & Gender Violence Programs in Spain for Offenders

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