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When People Refuse to Learn

Neuroscience, Psychology, and the Cost of Repeating the Same Mistakes Some people go through life repeating the same patterns. Failed relationships.Homes that deteriorate through neglect.Declining health due to lack of care. And yet—nothing changes. Not because they don’t see it.But because they are not willing to learn from it. The Pattern of Repetition When mistakes… Read More When People Refuse to Learn

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      Linda C J Turner on When a Crumb Feels Like a Banquet: Mistaking the Absence of Cruelty for LoveNovember 6, 2026

      I have been fortunate to have several people come into my life at times when I genuinely needed someone. Some…

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      I wouldn't want to expose anyone out of revenge. I would want the truth to speak for itself. Sometimes the…

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      Linda C J Turner on No More Dear Paul Letters: I Will Never Beg for Love AgainNovember 6, 2026

      Yes, absolutely. I have nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of. I believe a relationship should be built…

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      passionfortruths on Loving Someone and Being Loving to Them: Two Very Different ThingsNovember 6, 2026

      Well said. Have a lovely day, dear one.👍😃👍

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      Linda C J Turner on Reinventing Myself: A Lifetime of Starting Again, Learning and Finding My Way HomeNovember 6, 2026

      Thank you, that's so kind of you. ❤️ I agree, writing really can help us work through difficult emotions and…

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