Neuroscience & Emotional Regulation
Exploring how the brain and nervous system respond to stress, trauma and emotional experiences—and how understanding these processes can support greater emotional regulation, self-awareness, resilience and wellbeing.
A genuine smile conveys warmth and social safety, triggering emotional contagion through facial mimicry. It can shift group dynamics, creating a welcoming atmosphere. Distinguishing between polite and authentic smiles is crucial in human interaction. Smiles also foster positive feelings and connections, illustrating their profound impact on communication and emotional well-being.… Read More Why a smile can become contagious
The content explores the complexities of friendships, differentiating between genuine and transactional relationships. It highlights signs of one-sided friendships, the emotional impact when support is not reciprocated, and the importance of mutual respect, honesty, and emotional availability. Ultimately, it emphasizes valuing individuals for who they are rather than what they provide.… Read More Genuine Friendship vs Transactional Friendship: When You’re There for Someone, But They’re Not There for You
Understanding mixed signals in relationships involves recognizing the discrepancies between what individuals say and how they act. Key issues include manipulation, emotional ambivalence, and recurring behavior patterns that reveal underlying intentions. Distinguishing between isolated incidents and repeated behaviors aids in assessing relationship dynamics and making informed decisions without needing to prove others’ motives.… Read More Reading Between the Lines: When People’s Words and Actions Don’t Match
The content discusses how children learn behaviors from their parents, often unconsciously adopting negative patterns such as manipulation, disrespect, or cruelty. It emphasizes the importance of modeling healthy relationship dynamics, as children may later reflect these learned behaviors back onto their parents. The piece urges introspection on what values are being taught through actions, not just words.… Read More When the Behaviour You Taught Comes Back to You
You are not a template — so why should your support be? When you have been struggling for a long time, sitting down for an hour and talking about what has happened can be helpful. But sometimes, talking is only the beginning. At Linda CJ Turner, we take a different approach. Rather than placing every client… Read More Why Our Approach Is Different: Therapy That Continues Between Sessions
Why do some people criticise others behind their backs but act sweet to their faces? Explore the psychology of gossip, superiority, impression management, social perception and trust.… Read More Don’t Insult People’s Intelligence: When Your Behaviour Tells a Completely Different Story
“The elephant in the room” refers to an obvious yet uncomfortable issue that everyone acknowledges but avoids discussing due to potential embarrassment or conflict. This concept applies to various contexts, such as relationships, families, and workplaces, where acknowledging uncomfortable truths can lead to responsibility and confrontation.… Read More “The elephant in the room”
Discover how ego, cognitive dissonance, emotional threat and confirmation bias can distort our perception, interfere with sensible decisions and prevent personal growth.… Read More When Ego Gets in the Way of Reality: The Neuroscience and Psychology of Self-Deception
Have you ever been told something about yourself repeatedly, yet somehow never really seen it yourself? Perhaps friends have said: “When you walk into a room, people notice you.” “Men are always looking at you.” “You don’t realise how attractive you are.” You may have dismissed it, laughed it off or simply not understood what… Read More When You Don’t See What Others See: The Neuroscience of Self-Perception, Trauma and Being Seen
Trauma is not only something you remember. Sometimes, it is something your body continues to respond to. When people talk about trauma, they often focus on the psychological consequences: Anxiety.Fear.Flashbacks.Nightmares.Hypervigilance.Emotional numbness.Depression.Anhedonia. But prolonged trauma can affect far more than how we think and feel. The brain, nervous system, endocrine system, immune system and cardiovascular system… Read More When Trauma Lives in the Body: The Neuroscience of Prolonged Stress and Illness
