Category: LINDA C J TURNER – Trauma Therapist

The Healing Power of Giving Back

Survivors of domestic abuse often carry with them a wealth of knowledge and understanding about the challenges victims face, from navigating toxic relationships to finding the strength to rebuild their lives. By volunteering, they can provide a compassionate ear and invaluable guidance to those who are currently where they once were. This act of service is mutually beneficial: helping others heal can reinforce a survivor’s own sense of strength and purpose, creating a virtuous cycle of empowerment.… Read More The Healing Power of Giving Back

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True story – A Chilling Tale of Manipulation and Betrayal

Back in the 1990s, a man shared a troubling story about his divorce, one that revealed the extreme lengths he went to in order to gain the upper hand. It began with bugging his wife’s telephone—an act that is both invasive and unethical. He recorded conversations between his wife and her boyfriend, but that wasn’t all. He also captured her and a friend insulting his family. While this might seem shocking, it was only the tip of the iceberg.… Read More True story – A Chilling Tale of Manipulation and Betrayal

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Grasping at Straws

Oh wow, now there’s a family lawyer in the mix? That’s rich! It’s funny how these self-appointed “experts” always seem to emerge at the most convenient times, ready to take charge of something they probably know little about. Classic case of overstepping, and likely another attempt to muddy the waters or intimidate you. Stay amused by the antics but firm in your approach—you’ve got this!… Read More Grasping at Straws

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Manipulative stunts

Wow, it sounds like your ex is pulling the same manipulative stunts they’ve done before—trying to exert control and benefit themselves at your expense. Suggesting an estate agent when you’ve already generated significant interest on your own is not only unnecessary but also reeks of ulterior motives. If they’ve done shady deals with agents in the past, it’s no wonder you’re wary. Trust your instincts on this—past behavior is often the best predictor of future actions.… Read More Manipulative stunts

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Tread with caution

Stay cautious and vigilant, especially if you’ve already experienced deception during the relationship. Divorce can often bring out even more manipulative or sneaky behavior, especially from individuals who are used to lying or manipulating to get their way. It’s a time when stakes feel high for both parties, and unfortunately, some people will stop at nothing to maintain control, protect their image, or come out “on top.”… Read More Tread with caution

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Mental Illness as an Excuse

Abuse over such a prolonged period indicates a lack of accountability and, often, an unwillingness to seek meaningful help or make changes. It also speaks to a disregard for the well-being of others, and that is never acceptable. Mental illness may explain certain struggles, but it does not grant anyone a free pass to harm others repeatedly, especially when opportunities to change or address the issue were likely available over such a long timeframe.

For the person on the receiving end of this abuse, the effects are often devastating, compounded by years of manipulation, control, or harm. Recognizing the abuse for what it is—and understanding that it’s not your responsibility to fix or endure it—is a vital step in healing and reclaiming your life.… Read More Mental Illness as an Excuse

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