“Happy marriages are based on a deep friendship.” — John Gottman

John Gottman’s research has had a major influence on our understanding of healthy relationships and what predicts long-term relationship success. Some of his best-known findings include: One of his most quoted observations is: “Happy marriages are based on a deep friendship.” — John Gottman John Gottman’s decades of research into relationships suggest that lasting love is… Read More “Happy marriages are based on a deep friendship.” — John Gottman

2025 July

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I Didn’t Marry for Money… I Settled for Less Than I Deserved

Growing up, we didn’t have a mansion or unlimited wealth. My mother lived in modest homes, but she knew how to live well. She believed life was for enjoying. She saved for beautiful holidays in elegant hotels, dressed well, appreciated quality, loved good food, and enjoyed meals in wonderful restaurants. It wasn’t about showing off—it… Read More I Didn’t Marry for Money… I Settled for Less Than I Deserved

Twice Divorced Following Allegations of Abuse: Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

When starting a new relationship, it is natural to focus on chemistry, attraction and hope for the future. But psychology reminds us that past patterns deserve careful attention. If someone has been through two relationships in which abuse has been alleged or found, it doesn’t automatically mean they are abusive in every future relationship. Allegations and legal… Read More Twice Divorced Following Allegations of Abuse: Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore