Absolutely not love—not in any form, not in any universe. What you’re describing is manipulation, neglect, and emotional abuse, not love. Real love is about care, respect, and mutual support. It does not leave you feeling abandoned, isolated, or struggling while someone else prioritizes their own interests or image over your well-being. Love Doesn’t Look Like This:… Read More Absolutely not love
When a couple breaks up but one partner continues to provide financial, emotional, and practical support, it often suggests that love and care are still present. In many cases, this ongoing support can create an opportunity for reconciliation because it maintains a level of connection and trust. It shows that, despite the breakup, the bond… Read More True Love
We’ve all encountered them—those individuals who are so wrapped up in their own narratives that they fail to acknowledge or reciprocate genuine care, love, or empathy. No matter what’s happening in your life, they always manage to redirect the focus back to themselves. When you need support, they’re either absent or use the moment to… Read More The “Victim Mentality”
Honesty and authenticity are the foundation of genuine human connection. For some people, these values are non-negotiable—they refuse to sugarcoat, manipulate, or play social games. Instead, they choose raw, unfiltered communication because they believe that truth, even when uncomfortable, is the most respectful and meaningful way to engage with others. For them, filters feel like… Read More Honesty and authenticity
In most cases, abusers do not fully confess to their actions—at least, not in a way that is honest, accountable, and free of manipulation. Here’s why: 1. Confessing Would Mean Taking Full Responsibility (Which Most Abusers Avoid) 2. Some Will “Confess” for Manipulation or Sympathy If an abuser ever “admits” their behavior, it’s often part of a… Read More Confessions
When an abuser goes into therapy, several possible outcomes can unfold, depending on their intentions, willingness to change, and the quality of the therapy they receive. Here are some common scenarios: 1. Genuine Self-Reflection and Change (Rare but Possible) If the abuser truly recognizes their harmful behavior, takes full responsibility, and commits to deep, consistent… Read More When an abuser goes into therapy!
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It sounds like someone is stirring the pot and spreading falsehoods—whether to manipulate, control, or create drama. That kind of behavior can be incredibly frustrating, especially when you know the truth but have to watch others believe the lies. The best way to handle it depends on the situation. Sometimes, confronting the lies directly is… Read More Fueling the fire
In an ideal world, love would conquer all. But in reality, love alone isn’t always enough. True love—healthy, mature love—needs trust, respect, communication, and effort from both people to overcome life’s challenges. If two people are truly committed to each other, are willing to grow, and share the same core values, then yes, love can help them… Read More True Love Conquers all?
Having a supportive family that genuinely wants the best for you—without hidden motives—is invaluable. It gives you the confidence to move forward, knowing that the people around you have your back for the right reasons. Unfortunately, not everyone operates that way, and it can be painful to realize when those you once trusted have their… Read More Hidden Agendas
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 