Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda C J Turner - Your Journey to Emotional Wellness | Emotional Trauma Therapist | EMDR | CBT | NLP |

🛑 Strangulation: The Silent Threat in Abusive Relationships — And the Dilemma of Warning the Next Victim

Strangulation is not just a red flag—it’s an alarm bell. It is one of the most dangerous and insidious forms of abuse, and yet, it’s often minimized or misunderstood. When someone puts their hands around your throat, they are not just trying to hurt you—they are showing you they can kill you. It’s a terrifying, calculated demonstration… Read More 🛑 Strangulation: The Silent Threat in Abusive Relationships — And the Dilemma of Warning the Next Victim

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🕵️‍♀️ NOT THE PERSON YOU THINK THEY ARE -🚨 “He’s dying…”

🚨 “He’s dying…” Except — he wasn’t. He was lying. Welcome to the world of emotional manipulation and image control — where truth is distorted, and sympathy is weaponized. Because when the truth is threatening to surface, some people will stop at nothing to cover it up. 😢 Faking weakness. Playing victim. Controlling the narrative. There are few things… Read More 🕵️‍♀️ NOT THE PERSON YOU THINK THEY ARE -🚨 “He’s dying…”

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📢 NOT THE PERSON YOU THINK THEY ARE

💔 “He’s in love again already?” 💡 Let’s talk about abusers who remarry fast — and what’s really going on. They want you to believe it’s love.That they’ve changed.That you were the problem.But behind the grand gestures and fast-moving romance is a very different story. 🚩 Why the rush? 💥 Because abusers rely on control — not connection.When that control… Read More 📢 NOT THE PERSON YOU THINK THEY ARE

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✨ Not the Person You Think They Are -I’m Living My Life — So Why Are They Still Watching?

I’m Living My Life — So Why Are They Still Watching? Here I am.Minding my own business.Not bothering anyone. 🪴 New friends.🖌️ New hobbies.🌞 New interests.💫 A new way of life. Eight months on, living independently, building peace, embracing joy —I’m healing.I’m learning.I’m working.I’m growing. I’ve built new boundaries, formed meaningful connections, rediscovered who I am,… Read More ✨ Not the Person You Think They Are -I’m Living My Life — So Why Are They Still Watching?

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🧠 Not the Person You Think They Are -“I Don’t Remember That”

“I Don’t Remember That” — When Gaslighting Disguises Itself as Forgetfulness Over seven years ago, I found myself at breaking point.In France.In tears.In pain.I went to someone I thought I could trust — someone who promised me, “You can come to me for help.” She told me she would speak to him. That I wasn’t alone.… Read More 🧠 Not the Person You Think They Are -“I Don’t Remember That”

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🧠 Not the Person You Think They Are -When Manipulation Dresses Up as Concern

When Manipulation Dresses Up as Concern — And Never Stops From the very beginning, this person has been there — not to help, not to support, but to control, confuse, and stir the pot. 🔹 She pushed boundaries.🔹 She interfered in conversations that weren’t hers to enter.🔹 She sent mixed messages, carefully calculated to create chaos.🔹… Read More 🧠 Not the Person You Think They Are -When Manipulation Dresses Up as Concern

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🧩 Not the Person You Think They Are – Do They Want Him to Go to Prison?

Do They Want Him to Go to Prison? At some point, you have to stop and ask yourself:Why do they keep pushing?Why do they keep breaking the law, again and again—knowing full well what the consequences are? It’s almost as if they want him to go to prison.And that’s when things get really disturbing. Because if someone is the subject… Read More 🧩 Not the Person You Think They Are – Do They Want Him to Go to Prison?

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