Trauma refers to an emotional or psychological response to an event or series of events that are distressing or disturbing, often exceeding an individual’s ability to cope. Traumatic experiences can be diverse and may include situations such as accidents, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, combat, or the sudden loss of a loved one. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being, leading to a range of symptoms and challenges.
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate The psychological inheritance of value systems and what happens when money speaks louder than love. We often hear the phrase “Like father, like son” with a touch of pride—perhaps in shared mannerisms, talents, or even ambitions. But what happens when that shared “wave length” isn’t rooted in emotional intelligence… Read More 🧠 Like Father, Like Son: When Money Plays the Leading Role 💸
Last year, I had the profound honour of sharing my personal journey with a remarkable group of professionals from the Guardia Civil Domestic Violence Sections of Javea and Denia, representatives from the Town Councils of Benitachell, Javea, Moraira, and Denia, and the Social Services of Marina Alta. To stand before this compassionate and dedicated group… Read More Breaking the Silence: From Survivor to Advocate – Sharing My Story to Support Others in Marina Alta
By Linda C J Turner Therapy For those of us who have survived decades of emotional, physical, or psychological abuse, there’s a phrase that lands like a slap in the face every time we hear it:“Just get over it.” It’s a phrase often delivered casually — sometimes with a shrug, sometimes with frustration, often from… Read More “Just Get Over It” — Why That Phrase Is Harmful and Scientifically Flawed
When a partner leaves you with nothing, the law and your healing journey must work together There’s a kind of heartbreak that goes beyond a broken relationship—when the person you trusted to build a life with walks away and leaves you, not only emotionally shattered, but financially devastated. It’s abandonment in every sense of the… Read More 💔 Deserted, But Not Defeated: Seeking Maintenance Payments in Spain
The Psychological Journey of Rediscovery and Healing For many women who’ve survived years of emotional abuse or coercive control, peace doesn’t arrive in a dramatic flourish. It arrives gently—through quiet mornings, through silence untainted by fear, through the profound realization that the chaos is no longer present. Peace at last, just being me. This simple… Read More 🌿 Peace at Last: Coming Home to Myself
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Last night has been nothing short of magical. I found myself surrounded by treasures—old jewelry, cherished clothes, unique foreign coins, and precious family heirlooms. But the real magic? Sharing it all with my grandchildren. 💫 We sat together, unwrapping memories. I had created prosperity boxes for each of them—beautifully… Read More The Power of Memories: Passing Down Love Through Family Heirlooms✨
If It Happened to Your Mother, Daughter, Sister, Cousin or Best Friend — What Would You Say Then?(A message from a trauma-informed perspective) Let’s stop for a moment and ask the question no one seems brave enough to answer honestly: How would you feel if what happened to me… happened to your mother?Your daughter?Your sister?Your… Read More What if it happened to you!
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Sometimes, the most courageous thing you can do… is nothing. Not out of weakness. Not out of fear. But because you’ve finally understood a powerful truth: you don’t need to fight people who are already destroying themselves with their own lies. 🎭 The Need to Expose vs. The… Read More 🌿 When Doing Nothing Is the Most Powerful Move
The Psychology of Manipulation, Erasure, and the Power of Staying with Your Truth By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate In a world where truth is quiet and lies are theatrical, it’s easy to feel like the honest ones are outnumbered. But here’s a fundamental truth of human psychology: 💡 Truth is self-sustaining. Lies require… Read More 🕊️ Truth Needs No Theatre. Lies Need an Army.🔍
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate There is something deeply powerful about reaching a point in life where you can pause, look around, and say: “I have everything I need right now.” Not everything the world tells you to chase.Not everything you thought you needed in the past.But the real essentials — the… Read More 🌿 I Have Everything I Need: The Psychology of “Enough” ✨
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 