Fighting for Justice: The Criminal Case Before the Divorce Tomorrow is a pivotal day, but not for the reason many might assume. This isn’t about divorce—at least, not yet. That battle is ongoing, drawn out by a man who will fight tooth and nail to leave me with nothing if he can. No, tomorrow is… Read More Fighting for Justice: The Criminal Case Before the Divorce
What I Would Have Done Differently: Lessons from a Journey of Healing Hindsight is a powerful thing. When we step away from toxic situations and gain clarity, we often see all the red flags we once ignored, the gut feelings we suppressed, and the choices we wish we had made differently. But rather than dwelling… Read More What I Would Have Done Differently: Lessons from a Journey of Healing
Breaking Free from the Illusion: Recognizing Abuse for What It Is For many survivors of domestic abuse, one of the most distressing realizations comes not in the midst of the abuse, but after leaving it. Once the fog lifts, the full weight of what was endured becomes clear—acts of cruelty, manipulation, and control that had… Read More Breaking Free from the Illusion: Recognizing Abuse for What It Is
This Is Not Love: A Tactic of Control, Punishment, and Abuse Love is not meant to feel like betrayal, manipulation, and financial devastation. Yet, when an abusive partner senses they are losing control, they often unleash a relentless campaign of punishment disguised as heartbreak. If you have experienced the following, know this: this is not love.… Read More This is NOT love
It sounds like you’re dealing with a whirlwind of manipulative tactics, and honestly, it can be frustrating and exhausting to see someone continuously come up with different stories or claims to get a reaction from you. These shifting narratives—from the new girlfriend to health crises—are textbook manipulation techniques. Each one is likely an attempt to… Read More Jackanory
When someone who has been married for 32 years suddenly claims to have a girlfriend (or someone else in their life), especially when they haven’t actually been involved with that person, it can be a sign of several things. Understanding their motives can give you a clearer picture of why they might take such a… Read More New Girlfriend
If an abuser suddenly claims that they still “love” you, have had therapy, and want to start a new relationship with you just before your court date, it’s likely a last-minute manipulation tactic. This is designed to create confusion and emotional pressure, potentially swaying your decisions or affecting your mindset going into the proceedings. It’s… Read More Last Minute Tactics
Could you be doing emotionally abusive behavior? Here’s a short list of questions to help you find out if you are doing things to erode love and connection in your relationship. Answer honestly. Your current or future relationship depends on it! The Questions: Do you find yourself giving them “the look” or responding in ways… Read More Could you be doing emotionally abusive behavior?
The Brutality of Control: When Violence Is Used to Break You There is a chilling reality that must be understood when it comes to abuse. If an abuser has ever put their hands around your neck, even once, it is a clear indication of their capacity to kill you. 🚨 They are capable of taking your life.… Read More The Brutality of Control: When Violence Is Used to Break You
Escaping the Vortex of Negativity: Breaking Free from a Vindictive Partner When you live alongside someone consumed by cruelty and vindictiveness, it’s easy to underestimate the impact it has on you. At first, you tell yourself you won’t be affected, that you will stay true to your own morals and beliefs. But slowly, almost imperceptibly,… Read More Escaping the Vortex of Negativity: Breaking Free from a Vindictive Partner
