Tag: neuroscience of giving

All Take, No Give: The Science of Humans Who Live in Transaction Mode

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

You know them.The ones who: Won’t lift a finger unless there’s payment involved. See every interaction as a transaction. Do the bare minimum — even in a marriage. Never offer emotional support, even to their own families. Are basically walking, talking “IOU” machines… except they never pay back. 🧠 The Neuroscience of Selfishness Your brain loves reciprocity. It’s hardwired for… Read More All Take, No Give: The Science of Humans Who Live in Transaction Mode

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The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

It starts innocently enough.You help. You lend. You sew. You bake. You listen. You fix. Before long, you’ve become the neighbourhood “Oh, she can do it!” “She’s got a sewing machine!”“She’s so kind — she’ll help you.”“Ask her, she’s the best!” And yes — you are the best.Until the day comes when you need help, and suddenly… tumbleweeds.The… Read More The Kindness Trap: When “Helpful” Becomes “Used-Up”

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