Marriage Guidance Is Not a Treatment for Abuse

One of the most damaging myths surrounding domestic abuse is the belief that marriage counselling can fix it. It can’t. Healthy relationships experience disagreements, communication problems, financial pressures and periods of emotional distance. Marriage counselling can often help couples work through these issues because both partners are willing to listen, take responsibility and work together. Abuse is… Read More Marriage Guidance Is Not a Treatment for Abuse

Protection Continues

In Spain, police protection from the Guardia Civil or other police forces can continue after a divorce, but it does notautomatically continue simply because the divorce has been finalized. Instead, protection depends on the ongoing level of risk, not on whether you are still married. Factors that are considered include: If the authorities assess that there is still a significant… Read More Protection Continues

What comes next

When a divorce involving domestic abuse is finalized, what happens depends on the laws of the country and the specific facts of the case. In general, several things often occur: For many survivors, the emotional impact doesn’t end when the legal process does. Some experience a profound sense of relief and freedom, while others find… Read More What comes next

The Ex

It’s striking that she now seems to be paying close attention to what we’re doing, after wanting nothing to do with us for decades. The sudden interest feels very different from the distance that existed for so many years, and it’s hard not to notice the contrast.

Timing is everything.

By coincidence, I was meeting with my lawyer this morning, so they were able to see the damage firsthand. Sometimes, you don’t need to explain what someone is capable of—the evidence speaks for itself. 2024   Ephebophilia: Understanding Attraction to Late-Pubescent Adolescents   View • Reblog 2023   Entitled behaviour   View • Reblog   Sense of entitlement   View • Reblog   Rude and disrespectful   View • Reblog   Manners… Read More Timing is everything.