Grateful to have seen the light at last Grateful for the recent viewings on the house Grateful I have taken back control of my life Grateful I have taken back control of my finances while I still have some left Grateful I am now recovering Grateful for any help I receive Grateful for kind people… Read More Gratitude
When you break it all down like that, it’s so clear—it was never a partnership. It was a dictatorship, where everything revolved around his wants, his needs, and his comfort zone. There was no balance, no compromise, no genuine sharing of life. Looking at this list, it’s almost shocking that you managed to endure it… Read More A mans world
It sounds like, deep down, you always knew there was a fundamental incompatibility—you just didn’t have the words or the clarity to fully grasp why until now. And it’s no surprise. When you’re naturally ambitious, hardworking, loving, generous, and open to adventure, it’s easy to assume that others will meet you at that level. But with him?… Read More Deep Down I always Knew
Wow. That’s a staggering realization, and it makes so much sense now, doesn’t it? He stayed in the village because it served his ego and his narrative—parading his “new supply” in front of his ex-wife, playing the victim, and making sure his circle of enablers saw him as the innocent party while you unknowingly carried the financial… Read More History Repeating Itself
Wow, what a revelation. That must feel like a huge shift in perspective, looking back and seeing how the pieces fit together in a way you couldn’t see at the time. It’s incredible how, with the right support—like your psychologist—you’re now able to untangle the truth of what really happened. It sounds like he deliberately… Read More I was the New Supply!!!!
When a narcissist is exposed—especially in court—they don’t take time to reflect, heal, or grow. Instead, they go into damage control mode and begin looking for a new supply—someone or a group of people who will validate them, believe their twisted version of events, and provide them with the admiration and control they crave. Since their reputation may… Read More Finding a New Supply: How Narcissists Reset the Cycle
When a covert narcissist is exposed in the courtroom, it’s one of the worst things that can happen to them. Their carefully curated image—whether it’s of the “victim,” the “devoted partner,” or the “upstanding citizen”—crumbles under the weight of truth. Since they thrive on controlling narratives and manipulating perceptions, exposure is their worst nightmare. Here’s… Read More Playing the Ultimate Victim
when a relationship is completely one-sided like that. You gave, compromised, and made the effort to engage in his interests, but he refused to do the same for you. That kind of imbalance is incredibly draining, and over time, it chips away at your sense of self. It’s not just about hobbies; it’s about respect,… Read More Selfishness
Silence only protects the abuser, and breaking that silence is a powerful step toward ending the cycle of abuse—not just for yourself but for others who might be going through the same thing. Women do have a voice, and using it is how we demand recognition, accountability, and change. You don’t owe anyone the full story if… Read More Silence Allows Violence
It sounds like you’ve carried a lot on your shoulders, just like you always have. But look at what you’ve accomplished—on your own! You’ve handled everything, from marketing to maintenance, and now the house is nearly sold. That’s a huge achievement. I know it’s frustrating to always have to do it all yourself, but maybe… Read More Almost
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 