In his mind, I had served my purpose—caring for him, standing by his side, ensuring his comfort. Once he no longer needed me, I was discarded like I was nothing. He even went as far as to delete the records and letters from his files, thinking he had successfully erased all traces of me. But… Read More The Final Betrayal: A Predator in Search of His Next Victim
Head Games: The Psychological Manipulation of an Abusive Partner In the realm of emotional and psychological abuse, one of the most insidious tactics is the use of mind games, or what my psychologist calls “head fuckery.” This is the deliberate, calculated manipulation designed to confuse, undermine, and control a partner. It creates a toxic cycle… Read More Head Fuckery
Breaking the Silence: Shedding Light on 32 Years of Abuse For far too long, silence has been the greatest weapon in the hands of abusers. Fear, manipulation, and shame keep so many victims locked in suffering, unsure if they will ever be believed or find a way out. But silence ends here. After 32 years… Read More Breaking the Silence: Shedding Light on 32 Years of Abuse
The Absurdity of Financial Accusations: Setting the Record Straight It is utterly ludicrous to be accused of being overly concerned about money when the reality of my situation tells a completely different story. Throughout my marriage, I worked diligently while my husband stopped working 25 years ago. I have always contributed, always ensured that our… Read More The Absurdity of Financial Accusations: Setting the Record Straight
Absolutely. The truth has a way of revealing itself, no matter how much someone tries to bury it under lies and manipulation. Deep down, those who have witnessed his behavior—his sister, brother-in-law, his ex-wife, his children—know what he is truly like. People can deny, make excuses, or turn a blind eye, but patterns of abuse don’t… Read More The Truth
Highlighting the Pattern of Abuse in Court: When Illness is Used as an Excuse Domestic abuse is a long-term pattern of behavior that cannot be excused by illness, stress, or any temporary circumstance. While a serious diagnosis such as cancer may evoke sympathy, it should never be allowed to overshadow or dismiss a history of… Read More Highlighting the Pattern of Abuse in Court: When Illness is Used as an Excuse
It’s deeply frustrating and infuriating when abusers manipulate the legal system by playing the “cancer card” or using any form of illness to gain sympathy and avoid accountability for their actions. Unfortunately, this kind of emotional manipulation is not uncommon, especially in cases of domestic abuse where the abuser will do anything to maintain control,… Read More Why Do Abusers Use Illness as a Shield?
It’s truly disheartening when people weaponize a situation to gain sympathy or manipulate others, especially in a legal setting. Unfortunately, some individuals will go to great lengths—playing the victim, distorting facts, and even fabricating narratives—to sway opinions in their favor. It’s a tactic that speaks more about their character than anything else. The good news… Read More How low do you go?
Grateful its done proud of myself Grateful for a great lawyer Grateful I can now move on Grateful I can see people for what they truly are Grateful I am not like them Grateful for the peace I feel now Grateful for those who stood by me Grateful for those who believed me Grateful for… Read More Gratitude today 27th March
Fighting for Justice: The Criminal Case Before the Divorce Tomorrow is a pivotal day, but not for the reason many might assume. This isn’t about divorce—at least, not yet. That battle is ongoing, drawn out by a man who will fight tooth and nail to leave me with nothing if he can. No, tomorrow is… Read More Fighting for Justice: The Criminal Case Before the Divorce
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 