Tag: Psychology

“Intermittent engagement” or “hot-cold behavior”

“Intermittent engagement” or “hot-cold behavior” in psychology. Let’s break down why this happens from a neuroscience and psychological perspective. 1️⃣ The Behavior: Mixed Signals and “Dangling” When someone says they want to see you but doesn’t follow through, or claims they’ll call tomorrow but disappears, it creates uncertainty and anxiety. This is a form of inconsistent reinforcement — a psychological… Read More “Intermittent engagement” or “hot-cold behavior”

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💖 The Science of a Thriving Relationship: Passion, Trust, and Connection

Sometimes love doesn’t strike like lightning — it unfolds like dawn. Slow, familiar, inevitable. And your brain has been preparing for it all along.

Imagine a relationship where the spark never fades, where mutual trust is rock-solid, and every conversation flows effortlessly. You’re deeply attracted to each other, yet you honor each other’s need for space. No mind games. No doubts. Just connection, respect, and undeniable chemistry. This isn’t just romantic fantasy — neuroscience and psychology show that such… Read More 💖 The Science of a Thriving Relationship: Passion, Trust, and Connection

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The Prefrontal Cortex: Impulse Control Breakdown

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

When someone repeatedly breaks a restraining order or keeps pursuing a victim despite the risk of arrest, they’re often driven by a combination of neurological dysfunction, emotional dysregulation, and learned behavior patterns — not simply “wanting punishment,” but an inability to regulate their impulses or tolerate loss of control. Let’s unpack what’s happening in their brain, step… Read More The Prefrontal Cortex: Impulse Control Breakdown

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Love Has No Age: The Neuroscience of Living in the Moment

Yesterday, someone told me, “We’re too old for relationships.”Later that same day, another voice said the opposite — “It depends on where you are in your healing, and what feels right for you.” And that’s the truth: it always depends on where your heart and mind are in their journey. From a psychological view, healing reshapes the… Read More Love Has No Age: The Neuroscience of Living in the Moment

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Why They Stay Close: The Psychology of Obsessive Proximity After a Breakup

Even after the relationship ends — after the messages, the threats, even a restraining order — some people still won’t go away.They linger nearby, rent close to your home, “coincidentally” appear in places they know you go, or find indirect ways to stay connected. It feels irrational. It is.But beneath the chaos, psychology and neuroscience reveal a… Read More Why They Stay Close: The Psychology of Obsessive Proximity After a Breakup

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When Hate Replaces Love: The Psychology Behind an Ex Who Can’t Let Go

One year after a breakup — even after a restraining order — some people still can’t walk away.Their behavior moves beyond heartbreak into something darker: obsession, rage, and control.You can see it in their eyes — the love they once claimed has mutated into hate.But hate, in neuroscience, is just love turned toxic inside a dysregulated brain. 🧠 1.… Read More When Hate Replaces Love: The Psychology Behind an Ex Who Can’t Let Go

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🧠 Understanding OCD: The Neuroscience and Psychology Behind It

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) isn’t about being “neat,” “organized,” or “a perfectionist.” It’s a complex neuropsychological condition involving intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors or mental rituals (compulsions) that people feel driven to perform in order to reduce anxiety or prevent something bad from happening. 🧩 The Brain Circuits Involved Modern neuroscience shows that OCD involves dysregulation in specific brain circuits, particularly… Read More 🧠 Understanding OCD: The Neuroscience and Psychology Behind It

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One-sided or exploitative relationships

A classic pattern of one-sided or exploitative relationships, and both psychology and neuroscience give powerful insight into why these dynamics feel so draining and confusing. Here’s a breakdown that connects behaviour, brain science, and emotional impact 👇 ⚖️ 1. The Psychology of One-Sided Relationships People who make everything about what you can do for them often show traits linked to narcissistic or emotionally avoidant patterns:… Read More One-sided or exploitative relationships

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