Tag: MONEY

When Everything Revolves Around Money, Is There Any Time Left to Actually Live?

Money is important. We all need it to pay our bills, put food on the table and create security for ourselves and our families. But what happens when money stops being a tool and becomes the purpose of life? When every conversation is about money…Every decision is about money…Every relationship is measured by money…Every act… Read More When Everything Revolves Around Money, Is There Any Time Left to Actually Live?

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Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

Financial abuse is not defined by how much money a family has. It is defined by how money is used to create power, dependence, fear, or inequality. Relationship psychologists recognise that financial abuse often develops gradually. It is the repeated pattern—not a single event—that matters. Possible warning signs include: From a psychological perspective, financial abuse is… Read More Possible Warning Signs of Financial Abuse and Withholding

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Financial wealth and emotional wealth are not the same thing

Someone may spend years criticizing other people for being obsessed with money or status, only to become preoccupied with those very things themselves. Psychologists sometimes refer to this as a form of psychological projection or defensive self-enhancement—criticizing in others what one is uncomfortable acknowledging in oneself. However, it’s important not to assume this explanation applies to any specific… Read More Financial wealth and emotional wealth are not the same thing

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When Money Is Always on Their Mind: When Relationships Become Financial Transactions

Money is an important part of every relationship. Couples need to budget, plan for the future and make financial decisions together. But there is a significant difference between being financially responsible and being constantly preoccupied with money at the expense of the relationship itself. For some people, money is not simply a practical necessity—it becomes… Read More When Money Is Always on Their Mind: When Relationships Become Financial Transactions

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When Money Becomes an Obsession Rather Than a Tool

Money is part of everyday life. Couples naturally talk about budgets, mortgages, pensions, savings, and future plans. The concern arises when money stops being a practical subject and becomes the lens through which everything and everyone is judged. Looking back, I realised that almost every conversation eventually came back to money. Not financial planning. Not… Read More When Money Becomes an Obsession Rather Than a Tool

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More Than Red Flags: When Love Becomes a Financial Transaction

There is a significant difference between building a life together and slowly watching your independence disappear. Healthy relationships involve shared decisions, mutual respect and a willingness to contribute according to each person’s circumstances. Financial abuse, however, is about control. It is about one person gradually acquiring access to the other’s assets, income and future security… Read More More Than Red Flags: When Love Becomes a Financial Transaction

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Reward and Motivation Systems

From a psychology and neuroscience perspective, it’s important not to assume that everyone who lives from inherited wealth has the same motives or character. Some inherited wealth and continue working, contributing to society, volunteering, running businesses, or pursuing meaningful goals. However, when someone becomes excessively focused on inheritance, constantly discussing who will inherit, what assets are… Read More Reward and Motivation Systems

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When Control Overrides Logic: The Psychology Behind Property Sale Sabotage

From the outside, it looks irrational. A property has been pushed onto the market for months. Pressure builds. Urgency is created. Deadlines are imposed. The message is consistent: we must sell, and we must sell now. Then, finally, the outcome arrives — a full asking price offer. And yet… the deal stalls. No signature. No movement.… Read More When Control Overrides Logic: The Psychology Behind Property Sale Sabotage

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