A pattern of judgment, projection, and hypocrisy. When someone says things like “she was never a Samaritan, she was just a gold digger” why would she be interested in someone 25 years her senior? Without evidence, several psychological processes can be at work: Projection People sometimes attribute motives to others that reflect their own way of thinking.… Read More A pattern of judgment, projection, and hypocrisy.
Dealing with gossip and backstabbing within a family, especially from in-laws, can create a toxic environment that feels both personal and unavoidable. When they pit family members against each other—gossiping to you about others, only to praise those same people publicly—it can feel like walking through a minefield. Recognizing this behavior and protecting yourself is crucial to maintaining your mental health and family harmony.… Read More Why In-Laws Gossip and Backstab
Family gossip and backstabbing can be one of the most emotionally taxing forms of toxicity, especially because it comes from individuals we are supposed to trust and feel safe with. The behavior of speaking poorly about others behind their backs while publicly praising them is a glaring red flag—and the likelihood that they’ll do the… Read More Why Family Members Gossip and Backstab
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 