“When Love Is Real, It Doesn’t Wait for a Will”

Itโ€™s fascinating, isn’t it? After 32 years of exclusionโ€”from birthdays, holidays, Christmases, and the very heart of what family is supposed to beโ€”suddenly, the word family is everywhere. Now, according to whispers and WhatsApp messages, he’s “dying.” And there’s an inheritance to be shared. And just like thatโ€ฆ the doors swing open. The people who never made… Read More “When Love Is Real, It Doesn’t Wait for a Will”

Shock and Disbelief

The immediate reaction is oftenย shockโ€”a sense ofย disbeliefย that theyโ€™ve actually been caught. For someone who has evaded capture for years, their brain may struggle to process the reality that their run is over. They might feel detached from the situation, as if itโ€™s happening to someone else. Their entire life has been defined by successfully avoiding consequences, and suddenly facing them can be jarring and disorienting.

This disbelief can manifest in thoughts like, โ€œHow did this happen?โ€ or โ€œThis canโ€™t be real.โ€ They may go over their past actions, trying to figure out where they went wrong, feeling a sense of confusion as their mental image of being untouchable crumbles. The mind resists accepting that the game is over, which prolongs the sense of shock.

Example:ย Someone might sit in a holding cell, replaying the events that led to their capture, trying to find a moment where they could have done something differently, refusing to believe that their time has finally run out.… Read More Shock and Disbelief