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Rewire Your Brain

The best thing you can do is to give your mind much more powerful, descriptive and positive words. Your mind’s job is to act on the words you tell it. Your mind is doing its job, so do your job and give it better instructions all the time.

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Accept Your Current Situation

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I am an amazing parent and grandparent

Come and join me in telling the world what an amazing parent/grandparent you are! I am creating a gallery of letters from all of you amazing parents and grandparents out there on this website to remind ourselves what great parents/grandparents we are. I have two children and have been the best parent and grandparent I… Read More I am an amazing parent and grandparent

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Why do I feel so bad?

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A Healing Journey

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Recovery Therapist

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What are you going to do right now?!

It doesn’t matter what happened in the past. The only thing that matters is what you are going to do RIGHT NOW! What are you going to do right now?!  

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  • When Someone Cannot Accept That You Have Moved On: Revenge, Resentment and the Psychology of Losing ControlNovember 4, 2026
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  • 1 November: The Day I Knew I Could Never Go BackNovember 3, 2026
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  • When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy
    When Cruelty Escalates: The Psychology of Lethal Violence, Coercive Control and the Erosion of Empathy
  • COURT-READY TIMELINE OF PATTERN OF CONTROL
    COURT-READY TIMELINE OF PATTERN OF CONTROL
  • Progressive Boundary Erosion: How Abuse Gradually Changes What You Are Prepared to Accept
    Progressive Boundary Erosion: How Abuse Gradually Changes What You Are Prepared to Accept
  • 1 November: The Day I Knew I Could Never Go Back
    1 November: The Day I Knew I Could Never Go Back
  • When the Bad Memories Outweigh the Good
    When the Bad Memories Outweigh the Good
  • The Psychology and Neuroscience of Vindictive Personalities: Why Some People Seem to Thrive on Revenge, Bitterness, and Jealousy
    The Psychology and Neuroscience of Vindictive Personalities: Why Some People Seem to Thrive on Revenge, Bitterness, and Jealousy
  • When a Crumb Feels Like a Banquet: Mistaking the Absence of Cruelty for Love
    When a Crumb Feels Like a Banquet: Mistaking the Absence of Cruelty for Love
  • When Someone Cannot Accept That You Have Moved On: Revenge, Resentment and the Psychology of Losing Control
    When Someone Cannot Accept That You Have Moved On: Revenge, Resentment and the Psychology of Losing Control
  • Trauma Bonding: Why You Keep Going Back to the Person Who Keeps Hurting You – And How to Break the Cycle
    Trauma Bonding: Why You Keep Going Back to the Person Who Keeps Hurting You – And How to Break the Cycle
  • Three Relationship Patterns That Are Often Confused: Mutual Trauma Activation, Anxious–Avoidant Attachment and Abuse & Coercive Control
    Three Relationship Patterns That Are Often Confused: Mutual Trauma Activation, Anxious–Avoidant Attachment and Abuse & Coercive Control

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