Why calm can feel unfamiliar (and even unsettling)
When someone lives for years in an abusive, unpredictable environment, the nervous system adapts for survival, not comfort. 1. Your nervous system was trained for threat, not peace Chronic abuse keeps the brain in sympathetic dominance (fight/flight) or freeze. Over time, calm becomes unfamiliar. The body learns: “Stillness = danger might be coming.” So when calm finally appears, the brain… Read More Why calm can feel unfamiliar (and even unsettling)






