Author: Linda C J Turner

Linda CJ Turner Trauma & Relationship Specialist | Neuroscience & Emotional Regulation | Women 45+ | Emotional Abuse & Coercive Control Recovery You survived it. Now it’s time to heal from it.

Transparency

Identity Concealment: Using multiple names is often a way to conceal true identity, making it difficult to verify the individual’s background. This can be an attempt to hide a criminal record, past misconduct, or other disreputable history. It’s crucial to verify the person’s identity through official documents and reliable sources.

Lack of Accountability: Individuals who frequently change their names can evade accountability and make it difficult to trace their actions. This behavior indicates a lack of transparency and a potential history of evasive or deceptive conduct… Read More Transparency

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Projection and Gaslighting

Projection is a psychological defense mechanism that involves attributing one’s own unacceptable thoughts, feelings, or behaviors to others. It’s a fascinating yet often troubling aspect of human behavior where individuals accuse others of the very things they are guilty of themselves. This mechanism serves as a way to deflect and deny the uncomfortable reality of one’s own shortcomings or unethical actions, effectively shielding the individual from the distress that comes with self-awareness.… Read More Projection and Gaslighting

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No-contest clause

While it’s impossible to completely eliminate the risk of disputes over your will, taking these steps can significantly reduce the likelihood and strength of challenges. By being proactive and thorough in your estate planning, you can protect your legacy and ensure that your wishes are honored, providing peace of mind for you and your loved ones.… Read More No-contest clause

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Navigating the Complexities of Personal and Professional Boundaries as a Therapist

Our training teaches us to look beyond appearances and understand the underlying causes of behavior. We are taught to consider past traumas, psychological disorders, and situational factors that may drive individuals to act in harmful ways. Yet, when the person causing harm is close to us, and their actions impact someone we love, our objectivity can be severely compromised.

The ethical dilemma here is twofold. Firstly, there is the challenge of maintaining our professional principles of non-judgment and empathy. Secondly, there is the imperative to protect our loved ones and take appropriate action against those who exploit and emotionally abuse them. Balancing these two demands is no easy task, and it requires a nuanced approach.… Read More Navigating the Complexities of Personal and Professional Boundaries as a Therapist

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The Nature of Reactions vs. Responses

Reactions are often immediate, emotional, and reflexive. They are typically driven by the amygdala, the part of the brain responsible for processing emotions, especially fear and anger. When we react, we do so without the benefit of reflection or consideration of the broader consequences. This can lead to actions or words that we may later regret, as reactions are often fueled by the heat of the moment.… Read More The Nature of Reactions vs. Responses

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Carers Allowance

Residency and Presence: To claim Carer’s Allowance, you usually need to be living in England, Scotland, or Wales when you claim. Living abroad typically disqualifies you from receiving the allowance unless you are a member of the armed forces or a Crown servant posted overseas.

Care Requirements: You must be providing at least 35 hours of care per week to the person who needs it. This care can include personal care, supervision, or other necessary tasks.

Relationship: You must be caring for a person who receives certain disability benefits, such as Personal Independence Payment (PIP), Disability Living Allowance (DLA), or Attendance Allowance.… Read More Carers Allowance

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