The Subtle Manipulation of Feigned Assistance

In our interactions with others, we often encounter individuals who seem eager to lend a helping hand. However, beneath this veneer of generosity, there can lurk a more insidious motive: creating problems only to step in as the savior. This manipulation tactic is subtle, yet its impact can be profoundly damaging. This article explores how people might put you in difficult situations and then pretend to help, with examples illustrating these dynamics.… Read More The Subtle Manipulation of Feigned Assistance

Cannabis Use and Respiratory Health Research

The study revealed that individuals who reported using any form of cannabis at least once in the year preceding their COVID-19 diagnosis were significantly more likely to require hospitalization and intensive care.

This increased risk for severe COVID-19 outcomes among cannabis users was found to be comparable to the risks associated with smoking tobacco.… Read More Cannabis Use and Respiratory Health Research

Navigating the Complexities of Personal and Professional Boundaries as a Therapist

Our training teaches us to look beyond appearances and understand the underlying causes of behavior. We are taught to consider past traumas, psychological disorders, and situational factors that may drive individuals to act in harmful ways. Yet, when the person causing harm is close to us, and their actions impact someone we love, our objectivity can be severely compromised.

The ethical dilemma here is twofold. Firstly, there is the challenge of maintaining our professional principles of non-judgment and empathy. Secondly, there is the imperative to protect our loved ones and take appropriate action against those who exploit and emotionally abuse them. Balancing these two demands is no easy task, and it requires a nuanced approach.… Read More Navigating the Complexities of Personal and Professional Boundaries as a Therapist

Unmanaged anxiety

“Out of control” behavior refers to actions or reactions that seem to exceed normal or acceptable boundaries of self-regulation, often characterized by a lack of restraint, impulsivity, or extreme emotional responses. This type of behavior can manifest in various ways depending on the context, individual, and underlying causes. Here are some common characteristics and examples:… Read More Unmanaged anxiety

When you cant fix it!

Abusive relationships are often characterized by a cycle of power and control, where the abuser manipulates and isolates the victim, making it difficult for them to leave. This cycle can include emotional manipulation, financial control, threats, and physical violence. Victims may experience fear, shame, and a sense of dependency that makes leaving incredibly daunting.… Read More When you cant fix it!