Therapy, also known as psychotherapy or counseling, is a collaborative process between a trained mental health professional and an individual, couple, family, or group. The goal of therapy is to address and overcome emotional or psychological challenges, improve mental well-being, and facilitate personal growth and development. Therapists use various therapeutic approaches and techniques to help clients explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, ultimately leading to positive changes in their lives.
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate There’s a specific kind of pain that lingers beneath the surface. It’s not always visible. It doesn’t always make sense to outsiders. But for those who have lived it, it’s as real as any physical wound. It’s called a trauma bond — a deep psychological entanglement formed over time,… Read More 🧠 Trauma Bonding: The Invisible Chains of Psychological Entanglement 💔
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate There comes a moment in many healing journeys where the truth — long silenced, denied, or twisted — finally comes to light. For some, it’s a quiet shift in dynamics. For others, it’s dramatic, almost cinematic. But regardless of how it unfolds, when the proverbial “karma bus”… Read More When the Karma Bus Arrives: A Psychological Perspective on Truth, Validation, and Inner Healing
A Step Toward Safety and Justice: My Restraining Order Has Been Extended Today, I received news that brought with it both a sense of closure and renewed strength: the restraining order I had in place has officially been extended. This decision was based on the evidence submitted to the court and the undeniable severity of… Read More A Step Toward Safety and Justice: My Restraining Order Has Been Extended
Reconnecting After a Long Marriage: A Journey of Self and New ConnectionsFor those gently stepping into life after decades of partnership By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate After spending 32 years in a marriage, the idea of connecting with someone new can feel like unfamiliar territory. It’s not just about learning someone else’s… Read More Reconnecting After a Long Marriage: A Journey of Self and New Connections
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate When Safe People Step Into Your Life: The Psychology of Healing Through Connection After experiencing abuse or long-term trauma, many survivors learn to survive by becoming emotionally self-sufficient, guarded, or even disconnected from their own needs. It’s a necessary adaptation—a form of psychological armor that helps you… Read More When Safe People Step Into Your Life: The Psychology of Healing Through Connection
Freedom from Abuse: A Psychological Perspective on Healing One Day at a Time By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Freedom from abuse is not just the absence of harm—it’s the beginning of a journey back to yourself. It’s the quiet realization that you deserve peace, safety, and joy. But after leaving an abusive… Read More Freedom from Abuse: A Psychological Perspective on Healing One Day at a Time
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate In abusive relationships, dog whistling is a covert form of communication that allows the abuser to deliver a private insult, threat, or reminder of control in a public or semi-public space, often leaving the victim feeling deeply unsettled, humiliated, or re-traumatized—while bystanders remain completely unaware that anything harmful… Read More Dog Whistling
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate 🧠 1. Neurologically: Your Brain Adapts… and Deteriorates ⚡ Amygdala Desensitization 🧩 Prefrontal Cortex Overload Eventually, the brain struggles to distinguish truth from fiction — leading to confusion, paranoia, and sometimes even delusional thinking. 🧠 2. Psychologically: Fragmentation of the Self Constant lying creates a false self. A persona. A mask. Behind… Read More 🔍 What Happens to You When You Lie Constantly?
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate When someone lies repeatedly — especially to protect their own abusive behavior or manipulate how others perceive them — several parts of the brain are involved: 1. Amygdala Desensitization The amygdala is the part of the brain that triggers emotional responses like guilt, fear, or anxiety.Studies have shown… Read More 🧠 Neurologically: The Brain Adapts to Lying — But Not Without Consequences
By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate Healing after physical, emotional, and financial abuse—particularly at the hands of someone manipulative or narcissistic—requires more than just “moving on.” It’s a deeply layered process that unfolds in stages, often nonlinear, often complex, but always transformative. From a psychological and trauma-informed perspective, here are the key stages of recovery and… Read More Healing after physical, emotional, and financial abuse
Trauma • Neuroscience • Emotional Intelligence • Women's Empowerment 