A narcissist refers to an individual who exhibits narcissistic traits or has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. While many people may display some narcissistic traits, individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder exhibit these traits to an extent that significantly interferes with their relationships and functioning.
When someone who has been married for 32 years suddenly claims to have a girlfriend (or someone else in their life), especially when they haven’t actually been involved with that person, it can be a sign of several things. Understanding their motives can give you a clearer picture of why they might take such a… Read More New Girlfriend
If an abuser suddenly claims that they still “love” you, have had therapy, and want to start a new relationship with you just before your court date, it’s likely a last-minute manipulation tactic. This is designed to create confusion and emotional pressure, potentially swaying your decisions or affecting your mindset going into the proceedings. It’s… Read More Last Minute Tactics
Abusers often escalate their manipulative tactics before a court case, trying to sway public opinion, gain sympathy, and isolate the victim. This is a classic pattern—right before legal consequences or exposure, they scramble to control the narrative. Here’s what’s happening and how to handle it. Why Abusers Ramp It Up Before Court 1. Damage Control: They… Read More Control the narrative.
Divorce is already a challenging process, but when a meddling relative starts sending harassing emails, it adds unnecessary stress and emotional turmoil. If you’re facing this situation, it’s crucial to stay focused, protect yourself legally, and not let their interference derail your progress. Here’s how you can effectively handle it: 1. Recognize the Manipulation Tactics Meddling… Read More Trying to control the situation
If you never received true kindness or remorse during the relationship, don’t expect it now. Any sudden display of affection, regret, or generosity is not genuine—it’s strategic. 🚨 They haven’t had a change of heart.🚨 They are managing the fallout of their actions.🚨 They are protecting their image, not repairing the damage. Everything is STILL Transactional A narcissist does not suddenly develop… Read More Don’t Be Deceived by the “Nice Act” During Divorce
It is truly astonishing how quickly some people can switch from one extreme to another. One moment, they are playing the victim, accusing you of lies and distortions, twisting reality to suit their narrative. The next, they are professing their love, saying they want you back, pulling every emotional string to manipulate the situation. And,… Read More The Flip-Flop of Manipulation
Professional doctors, psychologists, and therapists are highly trained in recognizing personality disorders, manipulative behaviors, and abusive tendencies. This is exactly why abusers—especially those with deeply ingrained patterns—avoid therapy at all costs. Deep down, they know that any real professional will see right through them. Why Abusers Avoid Therapy & Help How Professionals Spot These Personalities a Mile Off… Read More Why Abusers Avoid Therapy & Help
We’ve all encountered them—those individuals who are so wrapped up in their own narratives that they fail to acknowledge or reciprocate genuine care, love, or empathy. No matter what’s happening in your life, they always manage to redirect the focus back to themselves. When you need support, they’re either absent or use the moment to… Read More The “Victim Mentality”
The Illusion of Love: How Toxic Exes Weaponize Affection to Manipulate Love is often seen as a force of healing, growth, and connection. However, when an ex-partner claims to still love someone while engaging in toxic behaviors such as stalking, harassment, or financial abuse, their words become nothing more than a performance. These actions reveal… Read More The Performance of Victimhood
Claiming to Still Love Someone as a Cover for Abuse: The Manipulation Behind False Affection When an abusive person tells friends and family that they still love their former partner, it often serves as a calculated tactic rather than a genuine expression of care. They use these declarations not to show real love but to… Read More The False Narrative of ‘Still Loving’ Someone
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 