Today, something unexpected happened at the padel court. A rat darted across our path. There was the usual shriek, a few people jumped, and then everyone burst into laughter. Without missing a beat, I smiled and said: “I’m used to rats… I lived with one for 32 years!” The laughter was instant. Not because anyone… Read More The Rat at the Padel Court
Let’s be real. You left the building 18 months ago. You packed your bag, you waved goodbye, you moved on. And yet… somehow, some very determined human being decided that your life is still their personal playground. Cue the distant chaos. Threats. Gossip. Family drama. Lawyer letters. Court summons that seem to appear like magic. The occasional… Read More When They Try to Destroy You… From 18 Months Away: A Survivor’s Guide to Laughing in the Face of Distance Drama
First dates can be such an eye-opener — a chance to learn, laugh, and rediscover what healthy connection actually feels like. I was chatting recently with a gentleman who mentioned, quite casually, that he could cook, clean, iron, and basically take care of himself.I smiled — partly because it’s refreshing to hear, and partly because it reminded… Read More First Dates, Gentlemen, and the Psychology of Growth
Last night, a friend and I were laughing about past relationships — the kind of deep, belly laughter that feels like freedom. I was reminded of the day I left my husband of 28 years. I had my bags packed, ready to start a new chapter and move in with my daughter in Australia. As… Read More The Psychology of Self-Centred Love — and the Healing Power of Laughter
For many survivors of trauma or those who have lived through years of stress, conflict, or seriousness, laughter in a relationship can feel like a distant memory. Yet when it finally returns—when you find yourself laughing and playing with a partner again after decades—it can be profoundly healing. This isn’t just a sweet emotional experience;… Read More Rediscovering Laughter With Your Partner: The Neuroscience of Play, Joy, and Emotional Safety
Instant Chemistry: Laughter breaks down barriers and creates an immediate bond. When someone makes you laugh, it feels like they truly “get” you.
Shared Joy: Humor fosters shared experiences, inside jokes, and lighthearted moments that strengthen intimacy.
Communication Made Easy: A sense of humor helps people navigate even the most difficult conversations, turning tension into understanding.… Read More GSOH
A Natural Healer: Laughter releases endorphins, the body’s “feel-good” hormones, which reduce stress and boost happiness. It’s like a reset button for the soul.
Perspective Shifter: Humor has a way of putting things in perspective. It reminds us that not every moment has to be serious, and even tough times have absurdities we can chuckle about.
Bond Builder: Shared laughter creates strong connections with others. It’s a universal language that says, “We’re in this together.”… Read More Living Fully
Humor in the bedroom can be an unexpected yet delightful ingredient that deepens intimacy and strengthens your bond with a partner. It’s a way of bringing lightness, joy, and playfulness into what can sometimes feel like a high-pressure situation. When both partners are able to laugh together, it creates a safe space for vulnerability, reinforces emotional connection, and reminds you that intimacy doesn’t always have to be so serious. Here’s a look at why humor in the bedroom is so special and how it can enrich your intimate life:… Read More Strengthening Emotional Intimacy
A good sense of humor can be such a powerful connector—it shows intelligence, a playful nature, and an ability to see the lighter side of life. A warm, genuine smile is inviting and comforting, making someone feel safe and appreciated.… Read More Humor and a Nice Smile
Surrounding yourself with love and laughter is one of the most powerful ways to nurture your soul, especially when healing from past trauma or moving into a new phase of life. These two forces—love and laughter—are not just pleasant feelings; they are transformative. They have the power to uplift, heal, and create deep emotional connections that nourish our well-being. Here’s why they are so vital, and how you can intentionally bring them into your life:… Read More Love and Laughter
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 