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Generosity vs Transactional Living: Recognising the Difference

Not everyone who avoids volunteering or prefers to be paid for their work is selfish. Healthy people set boundaries and value their time. The difference lies in whether someone is capable of genuine generosity without expecting a reward. Generous Mindset Transactional Mindset Helps a neighbour carry shopping because they need assistance. Asks, “What’s in it… Read More Generosity vs Transactional Living: Recognising the Difference

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Faith or Performance? When Words and Actions Don’t Match

We have all met people who speak passionately about faith, quote scripture, and present themselves as deeply religious. They pray in public, preach to others, and insist on their moral values. Yet behind closed doors, their actions tell a very different story. This is not an attack on Christianity or any religion. In fact, every… Read More Faith or Performance? When Words and Actions Don’t Match

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Posts from June 2025

2025   “So… if it wasn’t the money, and it wasn’t the sex, and it definitely wasn’t the looks… WHY were you with him?”   View •    💋”Must’ve kept him young having a younger wife!” they say…   View •    💔 “No, It Was Never for the Money” — A Truth Behind the Facade   View •   💔 “No one falls in love faster… Read More Posts from June 2025

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Older posts from May 30th

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

On This Day You have 33 posts from this day, May 30. 🌷 2025   🌊 Back to Me   View •    🌿 You Are Not Responsible for Their Misery   View •    💔 When You Love Someone Who Is Miserable All the Time   View •    💔 The Slow Burn of Meanness in Long-Term Relationships   View •    🧨 Definition of Cruelty in a Long-Term Relationship   View •    🌊 Just… Read More Older posts from May 30th

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Moving on: Embracing a fresh start by letting go of the past

Moving house is often more than just a physical relocation—it’s a deeply emotional journey, especially when it involves sorting through years of shared memories and possessions. For many, the process of packing and unpacking can feel like reliving the past repeatedly, stirring up complex feelings and unresolved attachments. After packing and unpacking multiple times, the… Read More Moving on: Embracing a fresh start by letting go of the past

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Cruelty When No One’s Watching

In a lesser-known series of experiments within Social Psychology, researchers explored a simple but uncomfortable question: What do people do when they believe no one is watching? What they found challenges the comforting belief that cruelty is rare or limited to “bad people.” When anonymity increases, accountability drops. And when accountability drops, a small but significant number… Read More Cruelty When No One’s Watching

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Staying Was Survival—Leaving Was Transformation

By Linda C J Turner, Therapist & Advocate — Linda C J Turner Trauma Therapist | Neuroscience & Emotional Intelligence Practitioner | Advocate for Women’s Empowerment ©Linda C J Turner

Redefining beauty, strength, and self-worth after divorce In a world that constantly measures beauty by appearance, we often forget where true beauty actually lives. To be beautiful on the inside is to embrace our humanity with grace. It is not about perfection, nor about always getting things right. It is about allowing ourselves to feel… Read More Staying Was Survival—Leaving Was Transformation

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From Waiting… to Re-Engaging with Life

“God’s waiting room” is a state of pause that goes too far. It’s when the mind and body stop reaching forward. The future feels closed, identity feels uncertain, and energy turns inward instead of outward. A warrior’s heart does something different. Not louder. Not harder. Just… different. It re-engages. The psychological shift In Psychology, the difference comes… Read More From Waiting… to Re-Engaging with Life

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You should not be the one excluded or prevented from attending.

If you have a restraining order (“orden de alejamiento”) against your ex, the responsibility is on him to stay away from you—not the other way around. ⚖️ What the law in Spain says A restraining order means: 👉 If he attends an event knowing you will be there, he is at risk of breaching the order. 🚫 Being prevented from attending… Read More You should not be the one excluded or prevented from attending.

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When You Finally Let Go: The Power of Surrendering to Something Greater

There comes a point in life where strength no longer looks like pushing harder. It looks like…putting it down. Not because you’re weak.Not because you’ve given up.But because you’ve reached the edge of what control can do —and you’re wise enough to recognise it. For so long, you’ve held everything together.You’ve carried, fixed, anticipated, protected.You’ve made… Read More When You Finally Let Go: The Power of Surrendering to Something Greater

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