Some individuals, during a divorce, project an image of magnanimity and fairness. They might tell friends, family, or even legal representatives that they want what’s best for everyone involved. They may act as though they are willing to compromise, presenting themselves as the “reasonable” party.

Behind closed doors, however, their actions tell a different story. Secret meetings with lawyers, unreasonable settlement proposals, and efforts to manipulate finances or hide assets all reveal their true intentions: to walk away with as much as possible while leaving their spouse with little to nothing.

This two-faced approach can feel like a gut punch. Not only are you dealing with the end of a decades-long marriage, but you’re also contending with the realization that someone you once trusted is now working against you in the shadows.… Read More The False Generosity in Matrimonial Splits: When Deception Masks Greed