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I am an amazing parent and grandparent

Come and join me in telling the world what an amazing parent/grandparent you are! I am creating a gallery of letters from all of you amazing parents and grandparents out there on this website to remind ourselves what great parents/grandparents we are. I have two children and have been the best parent and grandparent I… Read More I am an amazing parent and grandparent

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Self Care Isn’t Selfish

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Why do I feel so bad?

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A Healing Journey

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Recovery Therapist

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Stop being so forgiving!

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What are you going to do right now?!

It doesn’t matter what happened in the past. The only thing that matters is what you are going to do RIGHT NOW! What are you going to do right now?!  

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Your FUTURE starts TODAY not tomorrow.

Use your past as fuel to take you wherever you need to go! If you ever look back, make sure it is only to DRIVE YOU FORWARD! Don’t blame others for YOUR situation. Rely on YOURSELF to create a new situation. Your FUTURE starts TODAY not tomorrow. Plan now, live now!

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No need to let your past hold you back.

No need to let your past hold you back. Surviving struggle illustrates the lessons you‘ve learned and makes you stronger if you let it.

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Our past doesn’t define who we are

Our past doesn’t define who we are, because we are not our past, but we are what we choose to be at this very moment. Somehow we have accepted the concept that our past define who we are, but the truth is that our past cannot define us, but we define ourselves through our behaviours… Read More Our past doesn’t define who we are

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      Hi Jamie, Thank you so much for taking the time to write and share that with me. Your message really…

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