Some families donāt revolve around love, loyalty, or care ā they revolve around money.
In these systems:
- Relationships areĀ transactions.
- Partners areĀ targets.
- Deceit isĀ normalized.
- Family unity isnāt about love ā itās aboutĀ covering for each otherās cons.
If youāve been with someone whose family culture is all about exploiting partners financially ā raising mortgages, draining accounts, āborrowingā that never gets repaid ā you know the devastation it causes.
š You werenāt loved for who you are. You were treated like a resource.
This is financial abuse at a systemic level. Itās not just one toxic partner ā itās a whole family structure where betrayal is the norm.
⨠Real family isnāt built on profit. Itās built on love, trust, and presence. Donāt confuse a syndicate for a family.