A social predator is an individual who uses manipulative tactics and charm to gain the trust and control of others for personal gain. Social predators are often highly skilled in identifying vulnerabilities and weaknesses in their targets and use this knowledge to exploit them. They may also use their social skills and charisma to gain… Read More Q & A – What is a social predator?
Grooming refers to the process of building trust and emotional connection with a person in order to manipulate or exploit them. Grooming tactics can vary depending on the situation and the goals of the groomer, but some common examples include: Examples of grooming can include but are not limited to: It’s important to note that… Read More Q & A – What to look out for “Grooming Tactics”
Pathogenic grooming in families refers to the systematic and intentional manipulation of family members, often by a parent or caregiver, to create and maintain dysfunctional relationships and behaviors. This type of grooming can have a severe impact on a person’s mental and emotional health, and can result in long-lasting trauma and negative outcomes. Pathogenic grooming… Read More Q & A – What is pathogenic grooming in families?
Invalidation and perspecticide are both harmful experiences that can impact a person’s sense of self and wellbeing, but they have different meanings and implications. Invalidation refers to the act of denying, rejecting, or ignoring someone’s thoughts, feelings, or experiences. It can happen in many different contexts, such as personal relationships, social interactions, and professional environments.… Read More Q & A – What is the difference between invalidation & perspecticide?
Undue influence is a legal term that refers to a situation in which one person exerts pressure or influence on another person in a way that overpowers their free will and ability to make independent decisions. If someone makes you do something that you did not want to do through undue influence, it could be… Read More Q & A – What is undue influence?
Child abuse is a serious and damaging experience that can have long-lasting effects on a child’s physical, emotional, and mental health. The neurobiology of child abuse refers to the changes that occur in a child’s brain and nervous system in response to abuse, and how these changes can affect the child’s development and behavior. Research… Read More Q & A – Can you please explain the Neurobiology of Child Abuse?
Betrayal trauma is a term used to describe the emotional and psychological distress that results from a betrayal by a person with whom a close relationship is trusted and depended upon. The betrayal can involve infidelity, lying, hiding information, breaking promises, or violating boundaries, and it can occur in any type of close relationship, such… Read More Q & A – what is betrayal trauma?
When a parent betrays a child, it can be a particularly devastating form of betrayal trauma because parents are often the primary source of love, safety, and support for children. Betrayals by a parent can take many forms, including physical abuse, emotional abuse, neglect, abandonment, or other forms of mistreatment. The effects of parental betrayal… Read More Q & A – When a parent betrays a child
Adult children of psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths are individuals who were raised by parents with these personality disorders. These parents often exhibit patterns of manipulative, abusive, and controlling behavior, and may prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their children. Growing up with a parent who has a personality disorder can have a… Read More Q & A – I am an adult child of a psychopath?
I’m sorry to hear that your parents have negatively impacted your relationship. It can be incredibly challenging to navigate a situation where family dynamics are affecting your romantic relationship. It’s important to communicate with your partner and work together to identify the specific issues that your parents are causing. Here are a few steps you… Read More Q & A -My parents have ruined my relationship
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