Misunderstandings are very common in new relationships. When two people are just getting to know each other, their brains are still learning each other’s communication style, emotional needs, and boundaries. Both psychology and neuroscience help explain why this happens. 1. The brain is filling in the gaps In the early stages of a relationship, we don’t yet have… Read More Getting to know you?
In relationships, human behaviour often works like a mirror. What we project outward frequently comes back to us in similar form. If we communicate with warmth, openness and respect, those qualities tend to invite the same response. But when we project coldness, distance or hostility, it is not surprising when the response we receive feels… Read More The Energy We Give Is Often the Energy We Receive
When an abusive or highly controlling long-term marriage ends, the psychological processes in the abusive partner’s brain can look very different from those in the person who experienced the abuse. Research in Psychology and Neuroscience shows several patterns that often occur. Not every abusive person reacts the same way, but there are some common dynamics. 1. Loss of Control Triggers… Read More Loss of Control Triggers a Psychological Crisis
The idea that women know what they want in dating while men say what you want to hear and then withdraw or deny it is a very common experience people report. Psychology and neuroscience suggest there are some real tendencies, but they are patterns, not absolute rules. Both biology and social conditioning play a role. Here are some of… Read More What Men and Women really want!
Here’s the fascinating neuroscience behind why we sometimes feel instantly connected to certain people — often described as a “soul connection” — and how it ties into the broader network of human influence: 🧠✨ 1. Mirror Neurons and Emotional Resonance Our brains contain mirror neurons, which fire when we observe someone else’s emotions or actions. 2.… Read More Soul Connection
Humans are deeply interconnected through our brains, emotions, and social networks. Here are some of the main ways research explains this. 🧠 1. The “Six Degrees of Separation” In sociology, researchers discovered that almost any two people on Earth are connected by about six social steps. Example: Modern social media research suggests the number may even… Read More A living network of human connection.
Many people who have experienced manipulation or emotional abuse ask themselves the same question: “Why did this happen to me?” They often assume it must be because they were too trusting, too kind, or too open. But psychology tells us something very important: manipulative personalities are often drawn to empathetic people on purpose. Not because empathy… Read More Why Manipulators Target Empathetic People: The Psychology Explained
One of the most common things people are told after experiencing manipulation, betrayal, or abuse is this: “Be more careful.”“Don’t trust people so easily.”“You’re too kind.” Over time, people begin to question their own nature. They start wondering if their warmth, empathy, openness, or optimism somehow made them vulnerable. But the truth is something very… Read More Why You Should NOT Change Who You Are
A situation where the conflict isn’t really about money anymore — it’s about control. Unfortunately that dynamic is very common in high-conflict separations or property disputes. From a psychology perspective, several things often drive this kind of behavior: 1. Control is more valuable to them than the financial solution For some people, winning or maintaining power becomes the real… Read More Control is more valuable to them than the financial solution
The Neuroscience of Letting Go of the Fight For more than thirty years I have listened to threats about what would happen “when he dies,” how things would be arranged, and how decisions would be made without me. The children were kept out of the loop, wills were rewritten, and control was always the central… Read More When Control and Threats Become a Lifelong Pattern
Linda C J Turner | Trauma Therapist & Emotional Healing Specialist 