🧠 1. What schools in Spain are required to do
Across Comunitat Valenciana, schools must:
- Have a child protection/safeguarding coordinator
- Follow mandatory reporting rules under LOPIVI (Child Protection Law 8/2021)
- Act immediately on any suspicion of abuse or grooming
- Work with social services and police when needed
👉 Key point: schools are legally required to report concerns, not investigate them alone
🚩 2. Warning signs schools and parents may notice
📱 Online / digital changes
- Secretive phone use or multiple accounts
- Sudden use of encrypted apps (Snapchat, Telegram, WhatsApp hidden chats)
- Notifications hidden or quickly closed
- Online activity late at night
🧠 Emotional / behavioural changes
- Withdrawal from family or friends
- Anxiety, irritability, or emotional flatness
- Sudden attachment to someone they won’t discuss
- Confusion or distress after being online
🔒 Social red flags
- Receiving unexplained gifts or money
- Talking about an “older friend” they refuse to name
- Becoming defensive when questioned
- Missing school or changes in routine
🏫 3. What schools should do immediately
If a concern arises:
- Record observations factually (no assumptions)
- Report to the safeguarding coordinator
- Follow internal safeguarding protocol
- Escalate to social services or police if needed
👉 Schools should never:
- confront a suspected perpetrator
- or wait for “proof” before acting
👨👩👧 4. What parents should do
🟢 Stay calm, stay open
- Avoid accusation-based conversations
- Focus on curiosity, not confrontation
- Keep communication open so the child does not shut down
🟡 Ask gentle, non-leading questions
- “Who do you like talking to online?”
- “Has anyone ever asked you to keep secrets?”
- “Do you ever feel uncomfortable online?”
🔵 Do not investigate alone
- Do not engage with suspected adults online
- Do not try to “catch them”
- Preserve safety and report instead
📞 5. Where to get help in Spain (Valencia/Alicante region)
- 112 – Emergency services
- 091 Policía Nacional – National Police
- 062 Guardia Civil (EMUME units) – specialist protection for women and minors
- 017 INCIBE helpline – online safety, grooming, sextortion support
- 016 – national support line (advice + guidance, confidential)
🧭 6. Key safeguarding principle
In Spain, the system is built on:
Concern is enough to act. You do not need proof.
Professionals are trained to assess risk once a report is made.
🧠 7. What prevention looks like in practice
The most effective protection is:
- Regular, calm conversations about online life
- Teaching that secrecy in relationships is a warning sign
- Normalising asking for help early
- Schools and parents working together, not in isolation
⚠️ Important reality in this region
In tourist-heavy areas like Alicante and the Costa Blanca:
- Children and teens have higher exposure to online contact from strangers
- Seasonal population changes can increase risk of unsupervised online interactions
- Schools are increasingly focused on digital safeguarding and emotional manipulation awareness